Well he is ex coworker now and I had no big interaction with him. Many times I caught him starring. He is not my friend on social media or following me either. 5 am in the morning I received a notification from him liking one of my public photos. Out of the blue. It s weird because this happend exactly two days after I quitted my job.đ Who does that?
If my coworker liked my photo.. does that means he likes me?
If he knew you "quitted" (lol) your job, THEN he likes your picture, this tells me that he had pent-up romantic feelings for you, but couldn't express them because of fear of the consequences of fraternizing during work hours. Now that you "quitted", your available. His problem is that he is a bit shy. This is why he isn't love bombing you (a skill that only extraverted, narcissistic men have truly mastered). He doesn't have your ph. number and really had no way of reaching out to you EXCEPT through FB; hence the reason why he likes your picture. His problem is that he seems to be attracted to unintelligent women because ever since you quitted your job you've proven yourself to be as dumb as a sack of rocks.
What I suggest you do is like a picture of his back, with a little note. Let your intuition guide what gets written in the note...
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So you're just that one of that awful persons who are assuming that everyone' first language is English. Foreign people like me are allowed to learn and educate themselves. And people like you try to put them down just assuming. Yes, my first language is not English. I am learning 4 languages now. Sometimes I make grammar mistakes. Your thinking is limited , you cannot see beyond a point of view. Judging people without knowing the story behind, makes you the dumb one here, ma' friend.
NO. Its possible he may like you in a non romantic way. I mean he knows you , he see you everyday at work and you two talk and work together. It would be rude to ignore your pic when its there on his feed. He may be liking a male coworker's pic too if it shows up on his feed.
My advice : Dont judge a person's feeling from his liking a pic on social media. Its a waste of time and will create misunderstandings instead of giving you any answers. Just observe him face to face , that will give you hints if he likes you or not.
Although if this coworker is liking each and every pic on your timeline , even the old ones you took 2 years ago , then I think that He might like you and is stalking you. If its just the recent ones , then NO. I dont think its a big deal
I think that means that he at least has some interest in you- whether that be romantic or just as a friendship. I feel like itâs more common for girls to âstalkâ people on social media for no reason, but it seems different for guys. Almost more intentional or as a statement even. Either way I wouldnât take it too seriously because like other people have said, it could mean nothing. If I were you though I would go ahead and friend him on whatever social media that was. You donât work there anymore so what do you have to lose by friending him! :)
Probably. An ex-coworker sent me my photo to my inbox and commented on how my body looked. Other male colleagues gave me "like" as well. And, since he is not single, being liked or stared doesn't mean a thing. I found it unpleasant sincerely.
If you would like to know what he wants, ask him but please be careful.
I think he probably thinks you're attractive and wants to maybe hookup or date. I'm not sure of his exact intention but it's definitely a big hint he's at least attracted to you.
If you like him too, maybe send him a friend request and go from there. At that point, the ball is in his court and maybe he'll strike up a conversation.
The fact that you're not friends with him on social media (which would mean that he would've actually had to go out of his way to look you up and scroll through your profile, rather than it just popping up in his feed) and that you caught him staring a lot makes it seem that he probably does.
There really isn't enough info. He might not like anything about you but he likes your picture. I don't think it's uncommon. If he does like you it's even more likely and he thinks you'll be thinking about him which you are. I wouldn't assume that though if he doesn't start a conversation. I know plenty of people who just go around liking everything just because it's so easy to do and it doesn't hurt anyone
No, you're the one who is out of touch with reality. Look. If you're at school (college, not grade school) and a girl approaches you and says, "wow. I saw your picture for the commencement ceremony, and it looks amazing. I like it." Your initial and correct assumption that she likes you is a correct assumption; if you possess some degree of social skill, that is. Think about it. Why is the guy liking her picture? Think, think, think! Unless the other coworkers are doing it, I would never ever like a girl I wasn't into. I'd just be asking for trouble with chicks I really don't like pestering me all the time.
Never date co workers!!. If the relationship fails and he gets pissed off then the whole work place would know your dirty secrets and his co workers would give you shitty looks, name calls and etc. Been there!! Lol
I think everyone does that. Tho most embarrassing thing to happen when looking for someone on FB,
Other thing is Whatsapp. it makes accidental voice recordings a lot. I was waiting for someone who ghosted me. After 2 days. I was checking if she came online. I accidentally sent her a voice message... just a blank one. I had to delete it, I felt she would think I was waiting for her. Then I wrote her a message. it only made me to lose my sanity. That is why I hate touch phones. if that never happened, my life would be different.
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