My boyfriends lock screen and home screen is him and his best (girl) friend. Is this something I should worry about? (Page 2)
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I think it depends on how close they are. When and how they became friends matters. If it isn't a since childhood friendship I'd imagine he has a crush on her and is waiting until she doesn't have a boyfriend. Whether or not that's true that's what I'd be thinking.
I just don't get how anyone can be okay with that. It's one thing to be friends, but another to be flaunting like that. Almost like they are hiding in plain sight. I wouldn't put up with it if I were you.
He's in love with her as his mate. Unclear if he values her over you but there is obvious competition for his heart and mind.
He's young. He's either in denial or otherwise hasn't worked out that this won't fly. It goes beyond trust.
Ouch. Yeah that’s fishy. It sounds like he likes her but she has a boyfriend so he hasn’t made a move.
If I guy would cheat, they wouldn’t have their lover on their lock screen
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Or at least that's what he wants you to think. Even if you're completely right and he doesn't have the intention of cheating, it's still extremely disrespectful and treacherous to prioritize another girl like that.
Lol super immature thats why y'all been dating sense after highschool y'all young so it might not even last you might switch up at 21 saying u wanna go to clubs and drink and party without him one day. Also it's deff SUS he has as his lock screen clearly he has some type of feelings for her may be they dated in the past and then they became friends but he's always been obsessed with her
'girl best friend', right. You have the right to be concerned about him doing that. If you are more important to him (which should be so), he should have yours picture there, not of his 'girl best friend'.
Why didn't he put a pic of the both of you instead?
Next thing you know they'll be doing bad deeds behind your back, put a stop to this before it's too late.
Hang out you, boyfriend, his (girl) friend. After a while she will give a couple signals. Always laughing to jokes, always look into your bf’s eyes.. etc. you may need to worry. Say something like this just to be clear “You may not look at her with that meaning but i think she is into you” if she doesn’t you don’t need to worry
It's kinda weird. Maybe try to turn the situation around so he understands your situation better.
Ask him how he would feel if you change your background to a picture of you and your best friend (doesn't matter if you really have one). I'm sure he would feel the same in this situation.
This often helped me to explain situations I don't feel comfortable in.
It’s not concerning but it’s kinda weird and questionable, like why wouldn’t he have a pic of you two together as him homeschreen. I would definitely be jealous if my boyfriend did that.
I wouldn't unless he's given you a reason to be suspicious of his activity. However, I think I would rectify that situation if my girlfriend was uncomfortable with a situation like yours.
It would be my job to assure you of your place in my heart.
If there was something weird going on he wouldn't text her while you were around.
Doubt you've got anything to worried about.
I would normally say yes you should be worried but from what you wrote about affection etc, I think you are ok. Keeping her on his phone may be his way of saying to her, I’m still your friend even though I am in a relationship.
I’m glad it worked out!
No offense but your boyfriends an idiot. Even if there’s nothing to worry about, common dude you know women why the heck would you even do that. Unless it’s like a group picture.
Maybe he likes her more than you but she friendzoned him. And you are just a second choice. Could be.
Yes I think so. That would be hard. I wonder how he would react if the tables were turned and your best friend was a guy and you had the same thing going on. I be he wouldn’t be happy at all.
To be perfectly honest I would be worried about it personally
My lock screen is my best friend and I
There's nothing between us
But I assume you don't have a boyfriend, correct?
I have a boyfriend. He has to accept it ^^'
If you're not his best girlfriend. Then how could you even call yourself his girlfriend?
Damn. Food for thought.