Why do guys always sexulise things?

[Anonymous]

Guys if i post a bikini pic on insta why do u think i want to hook up with u?
once i was changing and a guy walked into bcs i forgot to lock the door and he saw me naked then he asked me on a DATE? He never liked me before just bcs he saw my boobs now he likes me?

[Punkbuster107]

I don’t think all men always sexualize things. A man who thinks and verbalized using his brain does not always sexualize things, but a man who is thinking using nothing but his reproductive organs will.


Let’s go through both the examples you mentioned to compare and contrast the difference:


Situation 1:


Man thinking with his brain) “This woman on instagram sure does look attractive in this photograph. Pretty sure this isn’t directed towards me personally, because it’s a public post going to everyone on her Instagram, and she has never indicated a sexual interest in me that would make me think posts like this are directed towards me. I should probably leave her alone and not take it for more than it is.”


Man thinking with his private parts) “WOMAN IS SEXY! I ASK WOMAN FOR SEX!”


Situation 2:
Man thinking with his brain) “Oh my goodness! I just walked in on a naked woman by accident. She must feel so uncomfortable right now! I should avert my eyes immediately, leave the room, and apologize for the intrusion. She probably feels even more awkward than I do, so I need to be sure not to say or do anything that might make it worse.”


Man thinking with his private parts) “WOMAN IS SEXY! I ASK WOMAN FOR SEX!”


Hopefully these explanations will shed some light on what sort of men you dealt with in your past experiences, and will help you identify what organs men are using to think with in future encounters. You may find you prefer associating with one type of man more than another, in which case I’d recommend selectively choosing to associate with that sort somewhat exclusively.

[centerline]

if a guy doesn't ask, he doesn't get... and a lot of times asking doesn't get him any where either, but the effort was made...

I do agree there are better ways to increase to odds of getting a date, but guys are guys, and they will do what guys do... and sex is never far from any mans mind, and the simplest thing can set him on a quest.

and whats the point of posting a pic of you in a bikini if you dont want people to admire it? some guys are crude and will make crude comments, but if you have never been to an xx bachlorette party, when you do you will see how crude women can be in real life... women are far worse than men.

its all perspective... depending on if you are on the receiving end or the giving end...

[David92506]

If a guy is wearing a suit and tie and has money dangling out, why do people want to rob him?
If a guy has loads of money, why do people always try to get stuff from him?
If a woman wears a thong, why do people "hit" on her?
Since Walmart's security has sunk to a new low, why are people stealing from them?
So a guy sees you naked and he now "hits" on you? It's a mystery.

[SjE78]

guys aren't always guilty of this, and in fact many women are more guilty of this than you'd think

[Don-_-Don]

If you post something like a bikini pic then your bound to have some guy be like "I wanna tap that", and then dm you, When a horny guy finds you attractive that's what you gotta deal with. Simple

[Wise4myage]

Hormones has a lot to do with this. That guy was a clueless fuck, lol..

[JackSmy]

Punk boys your age that don't know sht about anything, but assume they know it all!! LOL!!!

[AmeerX]

Get over it already. You should not think of it as a problem. Though that hook up askers are really desperate

[OddBeMe]

Wow you get harassed a lot. Guys are horny but shouldn’t be creeps.

[KrakenAttackin]

Welcome to reality. Also, by posting a bikini pic you are BEGGING for attention whether you will admit it to yourself of not.

[asshole_]

Same reason a girl might

[MagicalHero212]

Kens sns. Snssk snssns s

[Anonymous]

Are you really this naive?