Why don't he just block me, instead of avoiding me?

[Anonymous]

So I came to realize, that my friends with benefits is in investing into another friends with benefits relationship. For one, he don't hit me up often nor ask me for sex, and when we do have sex, it seems to be so dry and played out. Then when we do talk, he usually drops off and not say anything. And now, I feel that he is avoiding me because he has a new toy to play with. Now don't get me wrong, we have been in each others lives for the longest. And yes, some things do begin to get old and played out. But my thing is, if he isn't fucking with me like that, sexually or communication. Then why don't he just block me instead of getting offline when I get on. And if he has this new bitch! that he is falling for and getting more sex out sex or just having better sex. Then why is he still having the door open to me?

[yucychan]

He's just a friends with benefits, so why do you care so much if he blocks you or not?
If he blocks you, are you happier?
I also do not get your point of logic. Even if he does not block you, it does not mean he wants sex from you or anything. It just means you are not worthy enough for him to even raise his finger and press the "block" button on you, that he just can't be bothered with the likes of you.

[Asker]

Lol okay. Well anyways, I noticed when I am online, and so is he: he'll get offline. So instead of him doing all of that that's why I said why don't you just block me. He acts like I'm going to message him or something, I haven't said anything to him since. And if he doesn't want to be bothered with me we can always just get rid of me and not even seen her presence at all..

[spartan55]

Because he can still fuck you too... duh. Is there something stopping you from blocking him? So fucking pathetic.

[Asker]

No. Lol.

[reptocarl2]

Why do you care? Isn’t he nothing but a replacement for your dildo?

[Asker]

😅🤣🤣

[reptocarl2]

You’re pathetic

[Asker]

Like I can't be to mad @ him. Tbh, he's been around for to long and I do need to cut my ties from him. But again, why don't he just block me if he is seeking love elsewhere. Besides of not talking to me. Smh! like I can always block him. But I don't feel I need to. But if I was sexting someone else, I probably would or just wouldn't give a fuck like I do do now. 🤔😏🤨

[Cryptic-Game]

He likely just isn't interested enough to block.

[Asker]

I feel ya. I just thought if someone was so wrapped up in someone else. Then why even leave the door open, times that he gets online and I'm also online. He'll log off, he acts like he has some type of problem with me, but he's choosing Not to talk with me. And if that's the case then he doesn't even have to give me a present. I can always block him too. But I don't want too, even tho I should.