The problem is that I lose all those qualities when I aggressively chase girls that I like! Thus, all my life, I've had a lot of girls like me but I never get the ones that I pursue.
I suppose all guys have the problem of never getting the one they truly want. But it seems that my most attractive trait is directly opposed to, well, a direct approach.
Maybe I can be "assertively mysterious" towards a girl I like? My problem is that I lack patience at times like that and rush in, usually pushing the girl away.
So I suppose I need to learn patience and how to indirectly pursue girls while not losing my charms of mysteriousness and aloofness. What do you guys think?
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