Just wanted to rant and get an opinion from strangers as it feels less judgy than talking to friends sometimes?

My guess is that he likes you and finds you attractive BUT he has other stuff going on and you are not a priority to him. He has put you on the back burner as someone he might pursue on his time and terms. He might have a girlfriend or just a friends with benefits and is enjoying his easy life and having fun. If you want him, you’re gonna have to be more aggressive in your approach. Otherwise, you could just wash your hands of him and move on.
Lol you’re welcome. Was a slap in the face but very honest 😅
He never had the decency to apologise, and just left a snarky comment when you made it clear that you were upset. I think its silly to unfollow someone unless you're actually done with them. But that's not the point, he should have apologised by now. You're right, it didn't need to be a big deal, but its become one because he dealt with it so badly.
Message him. Talk to him and work this out if you really like him (if you don’t like him that much just say Fuck it and ignore his ass).
Thanks for the reply I know it was a long read lol 😂 yeah you’re right I just feel that it could’ve been so easily fixed by him as he was the one being inconsiderate so I guess my pride won’t let me go back on my word knowing that I was the one who was done wrong 🤷🏻♀️ plus I’m really trying to work on not being so forgiving to red flags due to past experiences but it also messes you up when they pop back up with petty stuff like this
Do you still like him a lot?
Yeah I guess I do 🙄
I understand
Unblock him and message him. Find out why he was so inconsiderate as to blow off your date for a night with the boys (who hopefully weren’t even gonna kiss him 😂). If he seems sorry, maybe try and give him a second chance. If you still like him and he still likes you, you can probably work this out.
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