Apparently he's having a fight inside him that's why still sleep with you and can't make up his mind with you being there, that's for your first question For your second question? I honestly think that he tries to be caring so that you dont feel it was only about sex in case he doesn't end up with you. I hope this was sorta helpful Those are the only explanations I see
Somewhere he wants more and wants that relationship but he still isn't sure. I would say there is nothing wrong to keep that way and who knows maybe finally he will agree with hisself nf tells you, that he wants a relationship. Let him make the decision and give him time a long as you want that too.
It doesn't seem or sound very meaningful side A kiss and cuddle after sex is either a seal to the pact saying both parties consented and parted in good terms So no come back can be launched Or it's just a goodbye thing he does He is showing little or no respect to you and likes your on call when ever he needs sex Move on don't waste your time You want someone for you where you feel your important and cared for
I've had a similar experience with a guy with whom we said from the very beginning that we will be casual cause he didn't want a serious relationship. Like your guy, he was affectionate before and after sex but that doesn't mean anything. It's at the heat of the moment where you can become affectionate with whatever person you have sex with. Sex itself, is a very private a personal act. So it's natural for some people to become affectionate at that moment. It;s like a package.(not always) . So being cute and all, doesn't necessarily means that feelings are involved. But you should ask him and make a convo about it.
It sounds like just in the moment casual sex... That he doesn't want a ldr, yet it doesn't stop him from having sex with someone ld... If he really wants a relationship with someone, he'd be getting together with people he could have a relationship with. Some people hook up with people that are long distance cuz it makes the perfect excuse why they can't commit instead of admitting it's all about the casual sex for them in the first place
It seems as though he is more lustful then he is social. I knew one girl who I was sexually and socially attracted to, the order is as follows: Social engagement. Easing into personal matters. Sex as a mutual eventuality. In your case, the sexual drives were mutual accepted but the will-to-sex sounds somewhat impersonal on his part. That being said, of you enjoy it, than you may aswell take it.
Sometimes we meet people that we think we love but it just works for casual encounters. Dont invest so much on him. And try to decide if you want to keep the casual sex or if you like him a bit more to just be that. Then have the convo. He probably will say he is okay like that and then you need to see what do you want to do. Do you want to keep the casual sex? Or you think that you can't continue doing this because you like him and you would like more?
Mam, according to me he likes you but is afraid of getting to attached in a relationship. But you can check for yourself if he likes you or not by seeing how he treats you I general. If he respects and treats you in a caring manner than he likes you otherwise he is just using you. Sorry for saying that mam.
Chemistry. Men bond with vasopressin (loyal) & women bond with oxytocin (not loyal) Oh, and he's hot, so you will do anything for him & so will the other girls.
I think he lusts for you more than he loves you. You have given him a reason to ghost you. He comes to you when he needs your body and disappears when he has had enough charge out of you. I think you should ask him to marry you and see how he reacts
You are doing exactly what a girl should avoid. If he has access to your body he will most likely dislike the idea of marrying you. You will scare him away by letting him sleep with you. He will most likely not think of as wife material and just girlfriend. How long do you two know each other?
I don't know prolly because he got what he wanted? If u like him more than a friend ion think u should let ursel to through all these confusing situations where u have to question where or what ur role is It seems like he's prolly using u If u like him and he does this u should cut him off as difficult that might sound But if u don't then who gives af Get fucked Have fun Just don't put ur self worth down for him it's not worth it
Just seems like this guy is not fully committed, he is there in that moment & you both enjoy each other but then for him, he is either scared or satisfied & just can't seem to hang around longer. Time for a serious chat with this guy to find out whats going on instead of asking us, ask him.
Sounds like he cares about u but doesn't wanna get attached becuz it's long distance that what it sounds like to me cuz guys that don't care about u will not be affectionate but of he's affectionate but pulls away it's cuz he doesn't wanna hurt u
I think he really likes you but just doesn't want to be committed to you since you live far away from him.. And he wants to have flings back home since he can't have you all the time.. That's what i think..😕
Well once he cums his drive is lowered a lot so he probably stops thinking with his dick and realizes he shouldn't get attached. Long distance relationships are extremely hard.
I've been through this before. He said he doesn't want a long-distance relationship, so he's not gonna ask you out. I think you should pretend you're not into him and just drop him like a hot potato sack.
Yeah I know he won’t but that’s the thing it’s long distance with him. We’ve agreed to it and he said how long distance never work but we still can’t help sexting and meeting to be all over each other. I just have strong chemistry with him it’s so frustrating
don't smash up his car. he's gonna think back in the future and be like dam I must've been a stud, since a girl smashed up my car all cuz of me. Best is to ignore him and pretend he never existed, pretend he's dead
He isn't ready for a long distance relationship.. but is totally attracted towards you.. can't comment about love. But yes you both are totally attracted towards each other.
Could be he just trying to keep himself at some kind of distance. Not in a bad way just that he knows what it is and don't want the long distance deal. My guess would be that it easier just to ghost then say goodbye if that's how you want to call it
It is pretty simple here. If the guy is interested in having sex with you than he is not shy. So if he wanted to have something more he would for sure make a move in that direction. But he is not interested for that. He unfortunatelly just loves your sexy body, not you. So if u want to have something serious you should move on and find a guy who would be interested in that. He won't dissapar ever, especially not after sex.
Horny, into you BIG time, desperate, marking his territory or It's only a way for him expressing his feelings in this friends with benefits relationship. If none of my guesses was right, go ahead and ask him why.
He probably doesn’t think it’s worth it if it’s long distance but still can’t say no to sex I don't know but he tells me it’s more than sex and there’s something about me blah blah I don't know if it’s bs
If you feel like you can't even ask him that simple question, maybe he ain't the one or at least not ready for something serious yet. To me this is a VERY childish behaviour. It could also be like this, he is polyamorous and doesn't want to loose you or the other person.
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Apparently he's having a fight inside him that's why still sleep with you and can't make up his mind with you being there, that's for your first question
For your second question?
I honestly think that he tries to be caring so that you dont feel it was only about sex in case he doesn't end up with you.
I hope this was sorta helpful
Those are the only explanations I see
Somewhere he wants more and wants that relationship but he still isn't sure. I would say there is nothing wrong to keep that way and who knows maybe finally he will agree with hisself nf tells you, that he wants a relationship. Let him make the decision and give him time a long as you want that too.
It doesn't seem or sound very meaningful side A kiss and cuddle after sex is either a seal to the pact saying both parties consented and parted in good terms So no come back can be launched Or it's just a goodbye thing he does He is showing little or no respect to you and likes your on call when ever he needs sex Move on don't waste your time You want someone for you where you feel your important and cared for
I've had a similar experience with a guy with whom we said from the very beginning that we will be casual cause he didn't want a serious relationship. Like your guy, he was affectionate before and after sex but that doesn't mean anything. It's at the heat of the moment where you can become affectionate with whatever person you have sex with. Sex itself, is a very private a personal act. So it's natural for some people to become affectionate at that moment. It;s like a package.(not always) . So being cute and all, doesn't necessarily means that feelings are involved. But you should ask him and make a convo about it.
It sounds like just in the moment casual sex... That he doesn't want a ldr, yet it doesn't stop him from having sex with someone ld... If he really wants a relationship with someone, he'd be getting together with people he could have a relationship with. Some people hook up with people that are long distance cuz it makes the perfect excuse why they can't commit instead of admitting it's all about the casual sex for them in the first place
It seems as though he is more lustful then he is social. I knew one girl who I was sexually and socially attracted to, the order is as follows:
Social engagement.
Easing into personal matters.
Sex as a mutual eventuality.
In your case, the sexual drives were mutual accepted but the will-to-sex sounds somewhat impersonal on his part. That being said, of you enjoy it, than you may aswell take it.
Sometimes we meet people that we think we love but it just works for casual encounters. Dont invest so much on him. And try to decide if you want to keep the casual sex or if you like him a bit more to just be that. Then have the convo. He probably will say he is okay like that and then you need to see what do you want to do. Do you want to keep the casual sex? Or you think that you can't continue doing this because you like him and you would like more?
Mam, according to me he likes you but is afraid of getting to attached in a relationship.
But you can check for yourself if he likes you or not by seeing how he treats you I general.
If he respects and treats you in a caring manner than he likes you otherwise he is just using you. Sorry for saying that mam.
Mam you are not saying that literally, right?
Chemistry. Men bond with vasopressin (loyal) & women bond with oxytocin (not loyal) Oh, and he's hot, so you will do anything for him & so will the other girls.
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I think he lusts for you more than he loves you. You have given him a reason to ghost you. He comes to you when he needs your body and disappears when he has had enough charge out of you.
I think you should ask him to marry you and see how he reacts
Are u mad ask him to marry me! Scare him away more
You are doing exactly what a girl should avoid. If he has access to your body he will most likely dislike the idea of marrying you. You will scare him away by letting him sleep with you. He will most likely not think of as wife material and just girlfriend.
How long do you two know each other?
Dont worry I’ll smash his car up wish me luck I hate him
Why do you hate him? You just love him right, no?
I don't know prolly because he got what he wanted?
If u like him more than a friend ion think u should let ursel to through all these confusing situations where u have to question where or what ur role is
It seems like he's prolly using u
If u like him and he does this u should cut him off as difficult that might sound
But if u don't then who gives af
Get fucked
Have fun
Just don't put ur self worth down for him it's not worth it
Just seems like this guy is not fully committed, he is there in that moment & you both enjoy each other but then for him, he is either scared or satisfied & just can't seem to hang around longer.
Time for a serious chat with this guy to find out whats going on instead of asking us, ask him.
Sounds like he cares about u but doesn't wanna get attached becuz it's long distance that what it sounds like to me cuz guys that don't care about u will not be affectionate but of he's affectionate but pulls away it's cuz he doesn't wanna hurt u
I think he really likes you but just doesn't want to be committed to you since you live far away from him.. And he wants to have flings back home since he can't have you all the time..
That's what i think..😕
Well once he cums his drive is lowered a lot so he probably stops thinking with his dick and realizes he shouldn't get attached. Long distance relationships are extremely hard.
Honestly this is the beat answer ur gunna get. Once the deed is done you pretty much just wanna chill and not be as cuddly.
I've been through this before. He said he doesn't want a long-distance relationship, so he's not gonna ask you out. I think you should pretend you're not into him and just drop him like a hot potato sack.
Yeah I know he won’t but that’s the thing it’s long distance with him. We’ve agreed to it and he said how long distance never work but we still can’t help sexting and meeting to be all over each other. I just have strong chemistry with him it’s so frustrating
don't smash up his car. he's gonna think back in the future and be like dam I must've been a stud, since a girl smashed up my car all cuz of me. Best is to ignore him and pretend he never existed, pretend he's dead
He isn't ready for a long distance relationship.. but is totally attracted towards you.. can't comment about love. But yes you both are totally attracted towards each other.
Could be he just trying to keep himself at some kind of distance. Not in a bad way just that he knows what it is and don't want the long distance deal. My guess would be that it easier just to ghost then say goodbye if that's how you want to call it
It is pretty simple here. If the guy is interested in having sex with you than he is not shy. So if he wanted to have something more he would for sure make a move in that direction. But he is not interested for that. He unfortunatelly just loves your sexy body, not you.
So if u want to have something serious you should move on and find a guy who would be interested in that. He won't dissapar ever, especially not after sex.
Horny, into you BIG time, desperate, marking his territory or It's only a way for him expressing his feelings in this friends with benefits relationship.
If none of my guesses was right, go ahead and ask him why.
He probably doesn’t think it’s worth it if it’s long distance but still can’t say no to sex I don't know but he tells me it’s more than sex and there’s something about me blah blah I don't know if it’s bs
If you feel like you can't even ask him that simple question, maybe he ain't the one or at least not ready for something serious yet. To me this is a VERY childish behaviour.
It could also be like this, he is polyamorous and doesn't want to loose you or the other person.
Dont worry I’ll smash his car up wish me luck I hate him
Don't take out your anger on him if I was totally wrong with anything I just said. Because it could be any other possible reason why as well.