Why does he kiss and hug me after sex then ghost? (Page 2)

Question

There’s this guy we’ve been talking for a year it’s complicated between us as we are not in a relationship because of long distance so when we are next to each other’s home town we met and he doesn’t want a long distance relationship. He’s always told me. But he took me out and couldn’t stop staring at me and touching my hair and hands and then we had sex before he went he said “give me a kiss.” So I did and he went and then next time I met him we had sex as when we are next to each other we can’t keep our ha dad off each other and there’s so much sexual tension. He couldn’t stop staring at my sexy lingerie and I can tell he kept on looking back and forth so we couldn’t help but be all over each other it always leads from touching to being all over each other. I don’t know what we are exactly but after sex he still shows affection by coming close to me wanting a simple kiss and messing around he also hugs me before he goes. However he always pulls away after sex? Why?

Tellme · Answer

In what way does he pull away? You mean that he doesn’t talk to you anymore for a while after you’ve had sex?

abhirox1 · Answer

As per me ask him directly in private... He will give answer and show some kind of behavior.. so

Dougzy · Answer

Wow really you don`t know, you gotta be shitting me

B2281 · Answer

He enjoys his little moments with you, but unfortunately that's all he wants are little moments. I believe if he doesn't want more than that he's probably not worth trying to keep.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Cuz he is trying to keep some distance in case things dont work out

Likes2drive · Answer

Maybe just being a gentleman or not wanting to get too close

samerin11223344 · Answer

These things will happen in life. Don't take it on you and move on

justaguy5612 · Answer

Probably just to keep things simple and not get too attached since neither of you are serious

neelairf · Answer

Hello, sweets. Do not smash his car. Just ignore him and do not indulge in having intimacy with him. He's one of those guys who'd use a girl just as a sex toy.

flashgrandad · Answer

Applepie, smashing his car up sounds a bit drastic sweetheart. Just ignore him if he shows up again, that will hurt him more and it is not a criminal offence.

Pulseofsulfur · Answer

I think that he wants to be in a relationship with you but doesn't want to because ldr don't usually workout as well. So maybe he's treating you like a friend with benefits

Lottifan · Answer

I think he has no real feelings for you. All he is after is what’s in your panties.

Strongballs34 · Answer

I didn't understand your problems.  Okay, if you have problems with him then squeeze his balls next time 🤣🤣.

Shiningtempest · Answer

@applepie24 Unfortunately, He's most likely to be a player who won't commit to you.

Anonymous · Answer

He may not want anything to be awkward? ( i honestly don't know sorry)

9Livezzz · Answer

Maybe he considers you as a friend with benefit. Only way to know really is by asking him.

ALewis30 · Answer

Just enjoy the time you guys have together and leave it after that.

knight2468 · Answer

I don’t see anything wrong. He kissed you after sex and seems he love u

Younghungguy17 · Answer

Maybe he just needs a minute to gather himself. Or just needs to catch his breath

ManMale · Answer

Leave him unless you just want him to use you to get rid of his sperms.

pantyloverr · Answer

I thinl he feels guilty because he knows he is using you for sex.

Stephanaoff · Answer

That's weird, maybe because he knows girls like that

gandolph3 · Answer

maybe he has a fear of being to attached because of the distance

Anonymous · Answer

Getting sex is a huge loss of incentive for a guy. Don't give it too easily...

lanadelrey25 · Answer

He only wants you for SEX, honey

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

How does he pull away?

spartan55 · Answer

Because you let him use you for sex... DUH.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i hear sparkplugs work well. they are cheap

Stoner710 · Answer

Because he got what he wanted sex

Lonerontheplanet · Answer

Because he’s a loser.

pigoat · Answer

He just wants you for sex

msc545 · Answer

Ok DO NOT smash his car - you will get in trouble.

SexyAsian · Answer

All he wants is to use you for sex.

Pete671 · Answer

Seems like he's not committed to you imho,,,

Wise4myage · Answer

Are you sure he's not just after casual sex?

alance99 · Answer

He just considers you a fuck buddy

Oonooooo · Answer

he's crazy and not worth your time☺

hopingforinsight · Answer

Need to know about the guy. What's his personality

Silvius · Answer

He needs some time to enjoy the experience

aieeazumui · Answer

Men just wanted sex and then they generally ghost.

Anonymous · Answer

You're like his cute puppy

Anonymous · Answer

he's playn u so expertly

Dexfer · Answer

Maybe he just want to have sex with you?

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

He doesn't love you

Houndofbaskervilles · Answer

Undecided probably

Anonymous · Answer

He just wants sex.

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