If my boyfriends keeps doing the same thing over and over again even when I tell him it hurts me does that mean he doesn’t respect our relationship?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I always get into a fight about the same thing how he likes half naked girls shake their asses on tik tok. I always explain how it hurts my feelings that he follows that or likes stuff like that. And he says sorry and then he just does it again. He says I’m controlling him and doesn’t like that I’m telling him what to do. I feel like he doesn’t respect me or our relationship. We have been together for 2 1/2years. Am I just being over dramatic about the situation?

[SoapySandwich]

I'm sorry it hurts you and if you dont want to be with someone like that I totally understand.

I personally enjoy looking at other women or pornography in a relationship, it doesn't make me love or want my partner any less. Some of my past partners have gotten upset about it so we sat down and talked about it. After that they usually are more accepting and even sometimes participate in it which has only really strengthened our relationship.

If the guy is great in other aspects of your relationship maybe try tolerate it but if it's a big issue then finding someone new would make you happier in the long run.

[Vviiccttoorr]

If he keeps doing the same thing over and over then he will NOT change no matter how many times he says he will and how many times he says sorry or how he needs you or anything; the best thing to do is walk away. Trust me walk away walk away walk away. It’s the best thing to do no matter what he says; I can’t say it enough. Also careful because he could be dangerous based on what I understand if him

[PurSeduction]

Young growing up men can be pain if they dont want to give up these kinda habits although having a girlfriend.

Either you take his so called desireable thing todo (watch half naked girls) as "serious hobby of him and tolerate it, or you tell him that it hurts you so much that u will end the relationship.

I would go for options one...

[SoapySandwich]

Just to throw in here I'd probably go for option 2 if thrown an ultimatum out of nowhere.

[Gooblegobble]

It means he doesn't respect you and wants a different girl. Dump him.

[Vulvalicker]

Yes and it also proves leopards don’t change their spots and people don’t change either. It won’t ever change so you have a decision

[Anonymous]

His natural visual fantasy is no different than your mental fantasy and it can not be simply stopped any more than yours can be.
It us nothing to do with you.

[JaneDoe377]

actions say more than words.

[DiversityHire]

He sounds like a treat.