Help guyss🙁🙁Why does he keep asking to meet and cuddle me?

[Anonymous]

I NEVER had a guy asking to cuddle especially a random guy. He is close to where i am at and he is good looking but i dont know why he always keeps asking for cuddles👀🌚.

I mean he always asking if he can come down and cuddle for a bit even😂maybe he is affectionate i dont know.

Then he asks if we can watch a movie and cuddle😂Is he into me or want to use me i keep distance from guys i dont want to be fucking hurt again like that other guy so i really dont know 🥺😔Maybe i meet him once and see from there i dont know i dont want to seem like im avoiding either im just confused😇😣

[sacajawea]

he may just be lacking something is his life. Perhaps he didn't get much affection when growing up. Maybe he is insecure. Or, maybe he is looking for more. If his mentioning this bothers you, tell him. If you don't feel comfortable then ignore him. Never forget, you have choices.

[Asker]

That is the thing i dont even know what he is looking for he says whatever you want so what does he want i want to know idm if he just doing it for affection😇but I don't know if he just wants to use me and i can't judge him so early either so i dont know what to think of it :(

[sacajawea]

He may not tell you what he wants but this is not really an unusual thing. Couples together for years, often say things like. ""I don't care where we go for dinner, you decide."" Then, once your partner tells you where they want to go, the other will often not like there choice. So one won't say what they want, yet they do have an opinion. What I'm trying to say, is it's not a deal breaker. Just be kind, and work at the both of you being more open. You'll both work it out. Best wishes.

[Asker]

but its our first meet so I don't know what to expect or anything lol

[sacajawea]

I didn't understand it was your first meeting. In that case, I would just take it slow and try to get to know each other a little better in person. MAYBE he feels so secure around you, he is able to fully relax and just be close. Best wishes. < Michael >

[Asker]

wdym
he feels secureee and yeah he said he wants to be close lol

[Dingsbums]

He might hope to turn cuddles into more if u know what I mean

[Asker]

you mean he just wants me for sex lets say🙄

[Dingsbums]

I don't know but probably

[Asker]

shall i just meet him n see how he responds if he wants to move to sex quixk in first meeting i just cut him off cuz im sick of being in these kind of using shit situations

[Dingsbums]

If u think u r strong enough to turn him down Sure

[Asker]

even if i find him attractive i will have to put him down😂

[Dingsbums]

Why? And where will u get the strength from

[rjd_20006]

One of two in my opinion - spooning leads to more and that’s what he wants or he has mummy issues

[Asker]

well he keeps asking to meet to cuddle like always snapping me to meet lol I don't know idm if he seeks affection fine by me haha

[rjd_20006]

And what If it’s that he just wants to sleep with you? How would you feel about that one?

[Asker]

i say no simple