My boyfriend can be both, and I like him that way.. I hate guys who are completely nice because I am a bit of a bad girl, so I need a bad boy.
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You ask some of the dumbest and most irrelevant questions on this site. I say irrelevant because the majority of them do not pertain to you or a situation that you are in or will ever be in. You can never tell how you or others will react until they are in the situation. You also feature your question when someone else who is in need of help or advice gets passed by or moved down the list. You have so many points on here but seem to be an expert at nothing.
Well if it isn't my favorite troll! How've you been sweetcheeks? You never replied to my last comment :( Still too afraid to show yourself I see.. Why is it a dumb question? It's gotten a lot of responses so it seems like the masses would disagree with you there. Also why do the questions on here always have to relate to yourself or your relationship? I'm always curious about other peoples thoughts and opinions so I like to ask. If you have such a problem with my questions why keep reading them?
Also, I've never once had any of my questions featured so I don't know what you're talking about there. Get your facts straight before you trash talk someone.
It WAS a featured question and you chose to add a poll to try and draw even more attention to yourself. Look at how many people viewed and answered this question. A ton more than usual...its because it was Featured. I agree with the other guy and think you are an idiot and just want attention. I also agree with him because per the fact that your on this site every second and answer every question and post so many questions and you are not even close to being ranked in the top of any category
No I promise I've never had a question featured. Including this one. It popped up as a poll on the side bar, but that happens automatically when a poll gets a certain number of hits. That has nothing to do with me. That's also why this got a ton of views and answers. I'm bored and I like to try to help people and get answers to things I think about. That's why I'm on here so much. Sorry if you think that means I want attention. And may I ask where you rank?
Bad boys are so over rated, only in the movies. Nice guys are the way to go!
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He's nice sometimes and nasty sometimes, he hits me sometimes but its usually my fault, he has made several rape threats but I don't think he would actually carry it out, apart from that he's nice :)
I hope this is a joke :/ Nobody should ever be with someone who hits them or makes rape threats... that's just horrible. And that's almost as bad as saying: Hitler nearly wiped out all the Jews, but apart from that he was a nice guy! >.>
I wasn't comparing him to Hitler. I was comparing your statement to my statement. Why would you stay in a relationship with somebody who treats you so horribly? Don't you think you deserve better?
no not really, best I'm ever gonna do, I'm an ex stripper so I'm pretty much a pile of sh*t, my boyfriend says I'm lucky he took me in and that no guy in their right mind would take me because I'm a slut. I think he's right tbh
Please do yourself a favor and do something to gain confidence and leave this guy! I have a friend who used to be a stripper and she didn't have any problem finding a nice guy. They're even getting married soon.
Haha, this poll is a little flawed. Like Hallday says, girls are gonna consider their boyfriends "nice" even if they are insufferable jerks. Most won't start labelling them jerks until they've broken up. =P
I agree that it's not perfect, but most girls do know when their boyfriend is a jerk, they're just in denial or hope that he changes. I dated a jerk for awhile and I was very aware of the fact that he was a jerk lol.
My boyfriend is the nicest guy in the world. A little too sweet and innocent, I like nice guys but sometimes I wish he would be a little more spontaneous.
okay I'm single but I voted 50/50 because that's how most of my bfs have been because really no ones nice all the time lol :) interesting results
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Yeah and the worst part is after these women are used up, they expect the men that aren't players and man sluts to take them back. Why would a pure man want some asshole's sloppy seconds?
Yeah I can understand not wanting to be with a girl who's slept around with a ton of guys. But what about the girls who were in a serious relationship with an asshole? How is her body any more used up than being in any other kind of serious relationship?
Asshole don't want serious relationships, they want to sleep with as many women as they can. She was used and showed poor judgment, immaturity and a willingness to bring life in to the world from a monster. This poor judgment shows a failure in a fundamental role of a human female: To keep undesirable men from reproducing and to be good mothers.
A mother cannot have selfish tendencies or reckless immaturity. Or the kind of stupidity to bring a life in to the world the man cannot support.
If guys want to be jerks, Let them be jerks. If guys want to be nice let them be nice. Girls have no business trying to tell a guy how to act. We act the way we want to act. We don't go around telling you girls how to act.
No. We don't like jerks. We like charisma. Period.
When you are describing is when women convince themselves that a jerk really is a good guy, and that if we change ourselves, the man will change too. We fall in love with the dream of a guy instead of the reality of him. But for the record: men fall in love with the dream of the girl he is seeing instead of the real her too.
No matter how d***ish a guy acts towards his girlfriend, if she's still with him, then she's not gonna say that he's a jerk. Otherwise, she'd have left already.
Not necessarily true. I knew my ex was was a jerk while I was with him but I stayed with him anyway because I hoped he'd go back to being the nice guy he pretended to be in the beginning.
...But that all hung on the hope that he'd turn out to be nice after all. Once it dawned on you that he was definitely a jerk and wasn't gonna change, you dropped him like a hot coal, right? That really just kinda proves my point.
No it doesn't. While I did break up with him eventually, I did date him for 2 years knowing he was an asshole. According to you, I would've broken up with him as soon as I realized he was an asshole. Which is what I should've done, but still I didn't.
Well,hindsight is 20/20, as they say. Were it ever to hypothetically happen again (which I'm guessing it likely won't, based on your update), however, you'd follow my point to the letter.
Can you at least understand why I believe this question is at least somewhat biased?
You're right I would. And I also answered that my boyfriend is nice and I prefer nice guys, so it would match up with my answer if I weren't the asker. And the question isn't biased, the answers are. As they well should be lol Which is the point I was trying to make.
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i think the nice guys are sometime a little boring so some girls don't like that. but I'd perfer a nice guy with a little edge
My boyfriend can be both, and I like him that way.. I hate guys who are completely nice because I am a bit of a bad girl, so I need a bad boy.
You ask some of the dumbest and most irrelevant questions on this site. I say irrelevant because the majority of them do not pertain to you or a situation that you are in or will ever be in. You can never tell how you or others will react until they are in the situation. You also feature your question when someone else who is in need of help or advice gets passed by or moved down the list. You have so many points on here but seem to be an expert at nothing.
no need to be rude ..
if you're not gonna answer the question, why are you here?
Well if it isn't my favorite troll! How've you been sweetcheeks? You never replied to my last comment :( Still too afraid to show yourself I see.. Why is it a dumb question? It's gotten a lot of responses so it seems like the masses would disagree with you there. Also why do the questions on here always have to relate to yourself or your relationship? I'm always curious about other peoples thoughts and opinions so I like to ask. If you have such a problem with my questions why keep reading them?
Also, I've never once had any of my questions featured so I don't know what you're talking about there. Get your facts straight before you trash talk someone.
It WAS a featured question and you chose to add a poll to try and draw even more attention to yourself. Look at how many people viewed and answered this question. A ton more than usual...its because it was Featured. I agree with the other guy and think you are an idiot and just want attention. I also agree with him because per the fact that your on this site every second and answer every question and post so many questions and you are not even close to being ranked in the top of any category
No I promise I've never had a question featured. Including this one. It popped up as a poll on the side bar, but that happens automatically when a poll gets a certain number of hits. That has nothing to do with me. That's also why this got a ton of views and answers. I'm bored and I like to try to help people and get answers to things I think about. That's why I'm on here so much. Sorry if you think that means I want attention. And may I ask where you rank?
My guy is a jerk to people who deserve it but he's super sweet to me and his friends.
Bad boys are so over rated, only in the movies. Nice guys are the way to go!
He's nice sometimes and nasty sometimes, he hits me sometimes but its usually my fault, he has made several rape threats but I don't think he would actually carry it out, apart from that he's nice :)
I hope this is a joke :/ Nobody should ever be with someone who hits them or makes rape threats... that's just horrible. And that's almost as bad as saying: Hitler nearly wiped out all the Jews, but apart from that he was a nice guy! >.>
Em no I'm not joking, and you can't compare my boyfriend to hitler!
I wasn't comparing him to Hitler. I was comparing your statement to my statement. Why would you stay in a relationship with somebody who treats you so horribly? Don't you think you deserve better?
no not really, best I'm ever gonna do, I'm an ex stripper so I'm pretty much a pile of sh*t, my boyfriend says I'm lucky he took me in and that no guy in their right mind would take me because I'm a slut. I think he's right tbh
Please do yourself a favor and do something to gain confidence and leave this guy! I have a friend who used to be a stripper and she didn't have any problem finding a nice guy. They're even getting married soon.
She wasn't trash
Really hope this is a troll post...
whats a troll post?
Haha, this poll is a little flawed. Like Hallday says, girls are gonna consider their boyfriends "nice" even if they are insufferable jerks. Most won't start labelling them jerks until they've broken up. =P
agreed, and well said
I agree that it's not perfect, but most girls do know when their boyfriend is a jerk, they're just in denial or hope that he changes. I dated a jerk for awhile and I was very aware of the fact that he was a jerk lol.
My boyfriend is the nicest guy in the world. A little too sweet and innocent, I like nice guys but sometimes I wish he would be a little more spontaneous.
you will only know if a guy is a jerk or not..when he dumps you so yeah gotta wait till then;)
He's both. He's a jerk to people he doesn't like and really awesome to people he likes.
I put my boyfriend in the nice category he respects me and lets my opinion come first and I love him a lot
okay I'm single but I voted 50/50 because that's how most of my bfs have been because really no ones nice all the time lol :) interesting results
Yeah and the worst part is after these women are used up, they expect the men that aren't players and man sluts to take them back. Why would a pure man want some asshole's sloppy seconds?
lol I know exactly who this is! What is it with you and women being used up? Not every girl who dates a jerk abuses her body in doing so...
Sorry question asker I'm with him on that.
If I found out she ploughed many men then forget it, its over.
You don't want your men sleeping around? So then don't act so surprised when men who don't want you because you slept around.
Had casual sex = used for sex = poor judgment = used up
Yeah I can understand not wanting to be with a girl who's slept around with a ton of guys. But what about the girls who were in a serious relationship with an asshole? How is her body any more used up than being in any other kind of serious relationship?
Asshole don't want serious relationships, they want to sleep with as many women as they can. She was used and showed poor judgment, immaturity and a willingness to bring life in to the world from a monster. This poor judgment shows a failure in a fundamental role of a human female: To keep undesirable men from reproducing and to be good mothers.
A mother cannot have selfish tendencies or reckless immaturity. Or the kind of stupidity to bring a life in to the world the man cannot support.
If guys want to be jerks, Let them be jerks. If guys want to be nice let them be nice. Girls have no business trying to tell a guy how to act. We act the way we want to act. We don't go around telling you girls how to act.
Who's telling anyone how to act?
My boyfriend is the sweetest guy you'll ever meet.
Fair enough. Thanks for answering.
All girls like jerks so they can change them or some reason like that is what they say
Definitely not ALL girls because I don't lol
Maybe most do at least
No. We don't like jerks. We like charisma. Period.
When you are describing is when women convince themselves that a jerk really is a good guy, and that if we change ourselves, the man will change too. We fall in love with the dream of a guy instead of the reality of him. But for the record: men fall in love with the dream of the girl he is seeing instead of the real her too.
lolololololol.
"Show me the results!"
Poll Win!
I voted 50/50 because I'm about 50/50. So.
I like your honesty!
hahaha
KEEPIN' IT RILL!
Well, here's a loaded question.
How do you figure? I'm trying to shed light on some presumptions by trying to get objective answers. That's the opposite of a loaded question...
No matter how d***ish a guy acts towards his girlfriend, if she's still with him, then she's not gonna say that he's a jerk. Otherwise, she'd have left already.
Not necessarily true. I knew my ex was was a jerk while I was with him but I stayed with him anyway because I hoped he'd go back to being the nice guy he pretended to be in the beginning.
...But that all hung on the hope that he'd turn out to be nice after all. Once it dawned on you that he was definitely a jerk and wasn't gonna change, you dropped him like a hot coal, right? That really just kinda proves my point.
No it doesn't. While I did break up with him eventually, I did date him for 2 years knowing he was an asshole. According to you, I would've broken up with him as soon as I realized he was an asshole. Which is what I should've done, but still I didn't.
Well,hindsight is 20/20, as they say. Were it ever to hypothetically happen again (which I'm guessing it likely won't, based on your update), however, you'd follow my point to the letter.
Can you at least understand why I believe this question is at least somewhat biased?
You're right I would. And I also answered that my boyfriend is nice and I prefer nice guys, so it would match up with my answer if I weren't the asker. And the question isn't biased, the answers are. As they well should be lol Which is the point I was trying to make.
he's nonexistent
lol