Boyfriends brother flirting with me?

[Anonymous]

This started kind of recently, at least from what I've noticed. We had a game night and his brother told me " I should smile more and that I had a beautiful smile". My boyfriend was also pissed that night for another reason. later on that night, he asked and I quote "Why are you with him?" he said it lowly but I pretended not to hear it and asked him a different version of the question, like I was clarifying what he said.
He's always happy to see me though and once their sister told him " you better stop talking to his girlfriend before he gets mad"

Tonight I shared something on Facebook saying "men only, give women dating advice" he commented and said, "let a real man love you". I said "welp, you don't have to tell me twice" (other guys commented as well). he literally replied saying "HMU and left his number"

I don't know what to do. I have the other brother and sister and law as friends. They might see it, as well as my boyfriend if he goes on Facebook.

[BigHomieNasty]

Deny him publicly if you want to maintain your relationship with your current boyfriend. Be direct. Say something along the lines of “you should respect our relationship” or “I have no interest in you”.


If you don’t deny him directly, clearly, and publicly, he will likely try to say that it was mutual “well she didn’t want me to stop”. The public denial gives evidence of your faithfulness.


You don’t have to be harsh or insulting. But tell him he can’t compete with your boyfriend, so that it will boost your boyfriend’s ego or morale and security in the relationship.


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[JesterRose]

He has no respect for his own brother, what makes you think he is going to treat you any better. Best to avoid.

[Asker]

I don't want him. I just don't know what to do or how to take it

[iseekpinetrees]

Delete the comment? Lol well are u interested in his brother? Either go for it or express to him your not interested

[Asker]

I can't delete comments

[iseekpinetrees]

Can u hide them

[Anonymous]

You knew you always liked his brother

[Asker]

I don't like his damn brother

[Opinion Owner]

Doesn’t your boyfriend have a girlfriend already

[Luckycharms12]

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