I have been dating a guy for 4 months. It went smoothly although we liven different states. After we had sex- he acted strange plus he talked all the way through it. He was nervous- he is 37 and only slept with 4 women. He only sleeps with women he is in relationships with. We had sex after 3.5 months.
I know he was stressed but I had not heard from him for days after so I gave him space as a year ago he got divorced. Then I asked was he ok. He said he was fine but stressed with everything but we continued chatting- I asked if he needed space. He said it was not so much he needed space but he was super busy and could not visit my state as much as he wanted. I asked him what he meant - because he was making no sense. He did not reply for a few hours so man I was pissed.
I then wrote him a message saying I was totally fine with him being confused but I was going to step away because he seemed like he did not know what he wanted and I want a man who is clear what he wants. It has been 7 days and nothing from him. I am guessing we are over but is this not strange behaviour? Any guy like to explain what is going through his head.
I know he was stressed but I had not heard from him for days after so I gave him space as a year ago he got divorced. Then I asked was he ok. He said he was fine but stressed with everything but we continued chatting- I asked if he needed space. He said it was not so much he needed space but he was super busy and could not visit my state as much as he wanted. I asked him what he meant - because he was making no sense. He did not reply for a few hours so man I was pissed.
I then wrote him a message saying I was totally fine with him being confused but I was going to step away because he seemed like he did not know what he wanted and I want a man who is clear what he wants. It has been 7 days and nothing from him. I am guessing we are over but is this not strange behaviour? Any guy like to explain what is going through his head.
