When you ask someone if they like you and they say I'm still getting to know you aftet they kissed you does this mean they aren't interested?

[Anonymous]

When you ask someone if they like you and thats their reply does it mean they aren't interested as they not talking now.

[kkirk4442]

Apparently, the relationship is new, and he takes longer to get to know someone, and to know if he likes them, than you do. It could be that he doesn't like you, but more likely, he just doesn't make such decisions as quickly as you do.

[Asker]

But he was talking sexaul to me too

[kkirk4442]

Sex is a different issue. For some people, they only want sex in a caring, strong relationship, such as marriage. Others, and likely this guy, see sex as more recreational, and doesn't see a need for particularly caring about someone, in order to have sex with them. You may not be well matched when it comes to when to have sex. I better understand people who want sex only in a caring relationship or marriage.

[Asker]

Yeah true I can't have sex with anyone I have to have connection and if I feel its one sided I feel rejected and yeah the thing is I would like a relationship but not sure what he wants he's not made it clear really.

[kkirk4442]

That makes sense to me.

[Whizzy83]

He is too stupid to know what he want... Date older men and notice we know what we seek.