Why do I only attract old guys?

[Ayanna240]

I'm 25 but I get told that I look anywhere from 21-24. It seems to me that I only tend to attract the attention of old guys in their 40s, slightly white / graying hairs. I can't seem to get the attention of young guys in their early 20s. Actually many of the young guys in their early 20s seem standoffish towards me. They would try to avoid eye contact with me or avoid talking to me. Guys in their 30s tend to be open to talking to me or pursuing me. But the guys who tend to check me out the most or unafraid of showing their attention towards me are the old guys in their 40s. I don't understand why its only old guys who check me out. Am I not attractive to young guys too?

[Luckycharms12]

Probably guys in early 20s are shy where the 40 year old are comfortable in themselves and will come talk to you.

[MotorcycleMan]

maybe it's not so much about who you attract, but who is willing to approach you.

[Bella9191]

People are lying to you. You must look older for your age.
i am 30 and I get talked to by young guys all the time. Like early 20s. Once I asked a guy who was 35 why he didn’t talk to me. He said he wanted to but thought I was way too young for him because he thought I looked 23.

[Ayanna240]

no i get told I look younger than my age all the time.

[Bella9191]

Do you dress sort of like a prostitute type look for your age? Sorry to ask. Only thing I can think of as to why men your age or younger aren’t asking you out.

[Ayanna240]

no i dress the opposite of a prositute.

[ChrisMaster69]

A lot depends on where you are from. Social groups you are part of etc.

a lot of guys in early 20’s are often not that confident or assertive at times.

possibly you look a bit older, or just your personality fits in better.

I don’t go out thinking oh she’s such and such an age I will chat to her, it’s basically someone you get on well with or similar.

Also a lot of 20’s are looking for that perfect Instagram girl to chat to them,

[Turrorrr]

guys hitting on you over 40 are a bit pedo if you look young. they would like to have you as a snack. and they are completely blind whether you have interest or not.

guys 20-30 are a bit lost and without balls. i would say you should build up your flirting skills.

[Browneye57]

Somehow you want to turn this into your being some kind of victim. And that's just sick, and really dumb.
You don't want the BOYZ your age anyway, they're clueless. A guy's brain doesn't even fully form 'till about 25.

[Ayanna240]

I am much more open to dating a 25 yr old guy than some 40 yr old guy.

[Browneye57]

Try 30. My bet is you'll be better entertained, better taken care of, and better sexed.
Just don't think for a second that I give a shit. You DID come here with YOUR question tootsie.

[Ayanna240]

I can date whomever I want. I don’t need old men telling me what I should do. I’m 25 and My age preference is 25-32.

I also don’t need to be taken care of, I am a woman with a college education and good Career prospects. I will grow financially stable with age. I’m not some helpless uneducated woman desperate for a man to give her a dollar

[Ayanna240]

I prefer someone who is of a similar financial status as me in their 20s. Because I honestly don’t need a man looking down on me for not having a car , or preferring cheaper options for dates. I’m looking for a boyfriend , someone I can relate to, not a dad who buys me everything

[Ayanna240]

Men complain about always having to pay for dates. Well If you’re gonna date someone 10 years younger , you’re gonna have to pay for not only dinners but also vacations too. Don’t complain if she begs you to buy her that expensive handbag that she can’t afford

[nerijukas]

Cause old man are creeps and think its easier to get a young girl

[fred_durst]

i bet most of them are married men , their wife is frigid so they decided to flirt with other women

[joedunn500]

what do u look like? I'll judge

[dolemite89]

do you have resting bitch face? 😂