Guys, How would you feel, if your friends with benefits wanted to leave the situationship and just wanted to remain friends, but without the benefits? (Page 2)

Erica686 · 2021-07-01T14:08:35Z

So my reasons for asking. Apparently, my used to be friends with benefits and I are on good terms and conditions. But I notice once I get myself involved with him, (SEXUALLY) I usually can't handle the dose of feelings that I have for him nor the situation. And if things are starting to get too deep and too serious on my end. I usually back out and distance myself from him. And if he has questions and concerns to why I am pulling away. I typically, let him know. But unfortunately I wish he would just say okay I just let me go and carry on. But for the simple fact of the matter he doesn't. He seems very concerned about me exiting. And says that he wants to continue! but if I don't, He understands. It's crazy @ times, how someone can be so attached to you. I mean they definitely have other options and other friends with benefits's. So what's the Pacific reason, that they just can't seem to get the message I really let go. After all, it's just sex. So what gives?

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spartan55 Follow
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And here we go again... listen to these opinions.

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- Erica686
  
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  It's just a question!! Lol that's all.
  
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- Erica686
  
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  😂😂😂😂
  
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msc545 Follow
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Sad but glad we would still be friends.

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Why the hate for attachment?

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- Erica686
  
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  But why keep the attachment if it's a bit unhealthy
  
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- TheSpaceGnome
  
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  I don't think attachments are unhealthy unless the person is toxic.
  
  I do think casual sex is unhealthy though.
  
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- Erica686
  
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  I agree
  
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Has happened. I didn't care.

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  ? wht
  
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- anylolone
  
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  I had plenty of friends with benefits who started dating and the arrangements where stopped.
  Problems arrived when they didn't, lol!
  
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