How can I kove forward now that I realize nobody wants me for real?

[Iebdbd]

My ego could not handle it before... That guys wanted sex but didn't want me. Nobody was a gentleman and pursued me like asking me on real dates.
I woild only get sexually hit on and invited to house dates and drinking or parties. I declined it all.

I know i want marriage and kids with a masculine provider. None of the sex crazed men after me can give me it nor wants to.

But before for a long time i had believed reasons that people tell themselves to make up reasons for why guys aren't pursuing relationships seriously.

The fact i think now is that noguy i know wants to love me. Sex isn't love.

So now where do i go from here

Im just happy my ego is small enough now that i can handle that truth.

[noohair]

You are 24, guys your age are mostly looking for sex. Go places where serious men go. Starting at church might help. Don't go out drinking. Look for social groups or hobby groups that interest you. Your life is not over at 24.

[Iebdbd]

Im 27 and age is not relevant. I would lile to be married at age 18. But the guys who chase me are at work mostly. I dont look for any guys here. I know theyre not worthy. Im just sayimg my feelings still get caught if guys you like are flirting at you. Even though i know we dont belong together. I dont drink r hve premarital sex

[Iebdbd]

These guys whowant sex know im a good girl yetthey keep yring to get me.

[Iebdbd]

For example a guy at work was fliritng hard and i assumed he liked me and was single but then found out he has a girlfriend. Meanwhile he's still beenflirting at me against ny wishes and i can finally see he doesn't like me he just wants sex. I reallythought he liked me and was getring ready yo leave her or something over it becauae he was ALL OVER ME.

[Stevefiveo]

There are a few guys that want relationships but not many. You will find someone someday. I don't see why you think it's just you.

[Iebdbd]

I know im not alone. I see other women complaining nobody asks them out or pursues serious marriages. I just didn't want to accept that guys that hit on me a lot dont actually love me or want to love me. They want sex. Its hard for a woman to understand that and to accept it

[Stevefiveo]

Well, you sound pretty enough that guys want to have sex with you so now you just have to find the right guy. A lot of nice guys are too nice to make the first move. So, you might have to change where you are looking and find a quality guy. PS the quality guys are very rarely at the bar. Good luck.

[Iebdbd]

Oh beleve me i dont drink at all or party or anything. I dont have fornication. I dont want that life at all. These guys are at work they are whorish men who won't leave me alone and want me for sex but they play their selfish games to entice a woman by her hope and emotion to trick her into sex.

[Stevefiveo]

Oh I see. There must be somewhere that you can look. What county do you live in?

[ohshee]

I Like you. There's something very beautiful and very poetic I never seen you just said and how you said it. And after hearing it I think you likes just starting and I wouldn't see there any reason why some guy would not fall in love with you

[Xkiebtkdid]

Thank you so much

[ohshee]

You're welcome but I think you because I can hear it I can feel it I can see your words they are true and they are beautiful from your heart I really don't think you have any problem getting a boyfriend I don't know what it is but there's something very special about you

[Hi754rcb]

You are very sweet. Thank you.

[ohshee]

Well thank you but I'm not trying to be sweet I'm being serious. I'm also very curious in all the above that you said do you really believe that or is it just something that you feel at this moment

[Lliam]

Don't say "nobody". There are good guys out there and you're young. Don't give up on your dreams. But don't compromise your values either.

[Xkiebtkdid]

Thank you so much

[Lliam]

@Xkiebtkdid. You're welcome.
The thing is, there are as many good guys as there are good women. Not all men and women are exploiters.

[IncognitoBandito]

Just take a break from searching until you're feeling more positive

[Iebdbd]

I dont really search... I just think guys hitting on me at work actually like me and wanna love me... Theyndont they just want sex

[Wise4myage]

Never give up and do your best to stay positive.

[clampfan101]

I’m sure there are good men that would want you.

[Iebdbd]

I want one to find and take me.