So I've been talking to this guy for over a year now after we lost contact 7 years ago. It started out as a basic friendship and we got pretty close over time. Well closer than before. We sext and it's all fun and good but when I ask him why we don't just make us official he says he doesn't want to label what we have because of the stress it will cause and the expectations that would arise. I don't fully understand that but I've respected it. Well recently he started sexting with me and asked me to call him 'daddy' . He's always called me 'baby girl' 'dear' 'darling' 'love' 'baby' even in the past before we lost touch. I'm so confused. I ask him how he feels about me and he says 'I don't know' and gets quiet for a while. He's currently active duty in the Army so I just figured it as bad timing as he got busy or something. So how should I look at this? What does it all boil down to? Help!