So I've been talking to this guy for over a year now after we lost contact 7 years ago. It started out as a basic friendship and we got pretty close over time. Well closer than before. We sext and it's all fun and good but when I ask him why we don't just make us official he says he doesn't want to label what we have because of the stress it will cause and the expectations that would arise. I don't fully understand that but I've respected it. Well recently he started sexting with me and asked me to call him 'daddy' . He's always called me 'baby girl' 'dear' 'darling' 'love' 'baby' even in the past before we lost touch. I'm so confused. I ask him how he feels about me and he says 'I don't know' and gets quiet for a while. He's currently active duty in the Army so I just figured it as bad timing as he got busy or something. So how should I look at this? What does it all boil down to? Help!
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You have a dd/lg relation. Do you meet up or is it purely long-distance?12
Kick his dumb ass to the kerb.
He wants to keep you hanging on until his current side piece accepts him or rejects him.0
What do you want? What does "official" mean to you?1
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Sex buddy? Those are the terms often used. Sounds like he just wants you around or you're a fwbs to him? A year is long enough something should be happening though. If he's not wanting to at least call what you have an official relationship (if that's what you want), I'm thinking he's not going to. Sounds like he wants his freedom still.10
He only want you :A Sex Buddy:he don't want to marry you, so kick his ass and quit0
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Maybe I'm stupid but the words being curved is like making it hard to read for me. But like I think he is making it obvious that he doesn't want to take things further and is happy about where things are at. Now like you have to ask yourself if you are okay with things then you will have your answer.