He came to check on me and saw I was eating cold food, he touched my bowl and said food should be eaten hot. He asked why and I told him I was busy hence I missed my lunch. He questioned what I was busy with.
If I have a text, he would ask who texted me and content. When we were playing drinking game, he was losing, he said "I love you that's why I don't let you drink."
He want me to make coffee, but not my colleagues. He would text me or I would ask. He would text he had reached home and asked if I'm home safely. He likes to look at me while he walked past and if we make eye contact with each other, he would smile at me.
Honestly. I don't. It just happened naturally and we are both not drunk. We had reoccurring sex.
I ignored him because he said that he was tired and want massage (sex) I rejected him and told him that he thinks of me when he need sex, I told him I'm going to ignore him. He came into my cafe for a drink and said "show off already? Never reply to my text?" I told him "I've already said I will ignore you. Your fault for not getting the message." He spammed my mailbox asked if I'm truly ignoring him.
We cuddle and fell asleep after sex. He seems fine with me staying over. He did question me one night what time do I planned to go home. I jokingly told him if he doesn't want me to stay, I can leave. He shook his head and said no.
He ask about my life after sex and I playfully told him that he won't be seeing me and not to miss me. He asked how many days do I plan to work with school schedule. I replied I'm not sure, if he wants coffee he can ask my colleagues. He said in the morning he will be busy and won't have time to get it. He said working and school will be tedious with my athlete life and told me to rest and take care of myself.
So what do you guys think?
He gets all the boyfriend benefits without having to be your boyfriend. If he wants more he will tell you or you can continue what you have and never get a commitment. Decide what you want and tell him.
That's also a good point. I do need to figure out what I really want. But I'm comfortable with the sex and company. It's my fault for no laying down the ground rules first