What does it mean when a guy doesn’t have sex with u the first time u hang / sleep over?

[Livv-x0]

I went to this guys house to hang cause we both needed the company and I ended up staying the night we slept in the same bed and we cuddled a little bit at one point and he did head scratches and that tickly thing on my back and legs and I did the same but I got a little frisky and ended up only wearing a big shirt and underwear 1 cause it was rlly hot and 2 because I wanted to get it on but he never had sex he did touch my butt tho it was definitely a good experience I just wonder what it means like does he like me or does he not at all or does he respect me cause most guys don’t care and just go for sex anyway so I was just confused

[NetSapien]

It simply means, he didn't want to go spear fishing in your coral bed.

And although, I agree, many guys would simply just use you to sheath their man-daggers, the reasons for this can vary, and many have nothing to do with you personally.

Some guys, rightfully so, will not engage in sexual acts under a roof with their parents out of respect. Some guys don't have the correct equipment to engage in safe sex. Some guys don't take the hint, "we're not good with hints at all tbh". Some guys will simply respect you and your body.

It can be 100 reasons why. If you really want to know, I would suggest you ask the guy himself.

[ChrisMaster69]

Strangely a lot of people don’t always jump straight to sex first time every time.

there can be a multitude of reasons, from not having any condoms to just not being in the mood.

he also may want it to be a bit more with you rather than jump your bones first time.

when I was single, I could have sex with one girl say on a Friday night after meeting her that night, then next time with a different girl, might wait for various reason.

everyone is different and reading stuff in to it is not a good idea,

best thing is to talk to him and see where you both stand,

[SnakeBoop]

it could mean he's playing the long game. Could mean nothing. Could mean something.

[RebeccaBI2000]

It could be mean he is shy and was not sure got to go to the next step.

[SAUL077]

It could mean so Many things. It's too hard to tell, I don't know the person. It could mean that he respects you and sees you as a long term person to be with. With my current girlfriend that was the case with me, we waited until after 5 dates to have sex. We thought if we had it too early it would possibly ruin the budding relationship. It could mean he wants to wait so when you do have sex it'll be that much better. It could also mean he has a tiny penis and doesn't want you to find out until you like him enough (yes, that's a thing, I hope for your sake it isn't that one). It could also be that he is nervous or shy, maybe he lack experience. So many things, so little time. Just talk to him more and hang out with him again. You'll find out soon enough.

[Fireguy17]

maybe he just didn't want to have sex the first night, wants to get to know you better.
I've slept, no sex with women before, first dat, the last time I was on my motorcycle and her house was about an hour closer than mine and invited me to stay, in the bed with her, we kissed etc, but never had sex.
I worked out of town during the week, so I sent her flowers to her work, and called and asked her out the next weekend.
Later she told me that it meant a lot to her that we didn't have sex the first night, that she knew I was interested in her for her, not just sex.
We were together for a long time.

[Staximus]

Maybe he didn't want to rush you, maybe he was too drunk to get it up, maybe he was nervous, maybe he didn't think you really wanted it. If you weren't kissing or making out with him, why would he think you're ready? You were already in the bed, though. If he's not moving fast enough, give him some inspiration. You should have at least kissed him. If you climbed on top of him and kissed him, he would have got the message real quick. Just hang out again and cuddle up to him again and say "kiss me you idiot"

[DonkeyDan]

Not everyone feels to need to fuck the first time they hang out, I don't really respect women who do either.

[Livv-x0]

I only expected it because most people I hang out with try to I don’t let everyone do it obviously cause that’s disgusting and I actually enjoyed the no sex it was good just something I didn’t expect u know just cause most people aren’t like that

[DonkeyDan]

I think it's kind of become a thing these days where people somehow think it's normal, I guess it could be my generation but as a young man you were lucky if you got a kiss on the first date 😂

[Andres77]

Maybe he really likes you and actually respects you and doesn't want you to think that he only wants your body.
Maybe he felt like he hadn't earned you yet.
If I moved on a girl too fast, I only wanted to use her.
If I waited for the second date... I must be gay.

[Andres77]

Just give him a little time.

[Paul09]

Maybe he actual has respect for you. And doesn't think you are a piece of meat. Or he is nervous. Especially if you do t know him that much on a phyiscal level. Maybe he wants a long relationship with you. Better to not have sex for awhile, if that's what you both want. But then again, stop guessing, and speak up.

[exitseven]

He was not ready to have sex. Not all guys are up for sex all the time. Maybe he wanted to know you better so it would mean something besides gymnastics.

[FilmGuy93]

It's definitely a respect thing for him. He likes you, for sure. It's also possible that he just didn't get super flirty vibes from you.

[HighValue]

Maybe he likes you a lot, but isn't the hook up kind of person.

[Sjjsjs]

Cos. girls. have to be the ones who intiiate sex... a guy can't do it or he wil be called a rapist or pervert, he was probably waiting for you to initiate it

[Slayerrrrrrr]

Just be transparent, and communicate about those very things.

[In_Trance]

means he has no idea what he's doing