I just need to make this very official here okay? As a straight white man, and I'm speaking for myself here... I'm not noticing black people's "blackness" I honestly dont gaf about race AT ALL. If I was looking at a black woman it's because I'm looking at a woman, not a black woman. you get my meaning? In other words I find you attractive, I like what I see, I might want to get your number, but I'm not concerned with your features in THAT way. I'm interested in the fact that I like the overall package and find you attractive. I don't know if that's what this guy was doing but he sure might have been. And he could have just been timid and afraid to approach you. And maybe you projected what you were thinking in some way through body or eye language and so he just never approached.
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Staring is rude, that's a given.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/iujEEQmjWFE
But maybe he just found you attractive.
Why does everything always have to be about race?
Now if you're dressed in an interesting way or have an intriguing hairstyle like he mentions at the 4:20 mark...But it doesn't have to be about race.
I haven't a clue. I'm not sure why skin tone would make someone stare. Perhaps this person found you attractive?
Rude to stare, but unsure what other reason it could be.
Probably admiring all of the above.
You sound like you lack self confidence.
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Most likely had nothing to do with your skin colour. Maybe he was attracted to you.
Usually a guy stares at a woman because he’s attracted to her and doesn’t know how to be polite.
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She is good looking or trying to make a spectacle of herself.Do you have a crazy afro? Do you dress like a slut? Do you look ghetto? Do you have a big nose? Do you have resting bitch face?
Im not sure exactly why but it could be any one of those reasonsPerhaps he found you attractive. You have hate in your heart.
If she has big boobs lol. Well I don't stare but glance. Maybe those guys have a thing for black women. Starring though is rude.
If you have a nice body most men will stare, either that or he was a creep
Cause she is a woman and woman should stay at homes
Maybe he just finds you attractive.
Skin color, most likely.
Maybe he just likes you
She fine back in the days they call it taboo
Attitude, probably
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