Please read the "Since a bunch of guys seem to misunderstand this: When I wrote chubby I meant chubby, and not obese... is it really that hard to get?" part.I was talking about chubby women, not obese women.
Also please don't try to invalidate our experience just because someone has it worse.With that sort of logic those innocent black men's experience isn't worth mentioning because people in north korea has it worse.
"a couple of extra pounds" sounds like the definition of chubby to me. But then again pretty much everyone else has their own idea of what chubby is.
Sorry for the type it ruined the sentence. "These are not* of a couple of extra pounds"
Ah okay it makes more sense now.Tho I don't think it's that many extra pounds. Like she looks kinda similar to me except I have slimmer arms and smaller breasts (and you know, the face is different 🤣) and maaaaaybe a bit thicker thighs, it's hard to make out from the image. And I'm not carrying that many extra pounds on me.
I'd have to see you to know. Don't get my message wrong, it's not be thin or forget looking good. It's a spectrum and a large opinionated one, the most important thing is being on the healthy end of it. I too struggle with weight but I never let myself go.
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Per your update, chubby is still fat. Morbidly obese = very fat. Men don't like fat women, chubby or obese. Workout ladies.
@Datboi65 chubby is like she should weigh 105lbs but weighs 110lbs but ofc we know no woman uses the word chubby that way. I bet the "chubby" girl in the picture is medically obese.
@bamesjond0069 If her BMI is at 25, she's overweight. Simple. No mental gymnastics, nothing. Girls lie about their weight and dress size all the time, but one look can usually tell.
@bamesjond0069 110 is skinny what the hell is wrong with you?
@Smiley_face101 It depends on someone's height, which is why BMI is the way to measure.
@Smiley_face101 its chubby if you're 4'11" without any muscle.
@bamesjond0069 Actually no, that's a BMI of 22.2, which falls in the healthy range. It would be considered overweight for a girl that is 4'7.
And how many grown women are 4'7 and under? You are sick for saying that 110 is chubby
@Datboi65 i have no concern for whats considered normal overweight or obese on a medical chart. Im coming from someone who used to work in modeling industry and personally i call chubby 5 to 10 lbs over model shape body. But ofc we all know this is not how girls use these terms.
@bamesjond0069 You do realize that "model shape bodies" are like 0,001% of the population, right?
In terms of fitness? No. More girls than that are physically in shape. Plus any girl could be in that shape if she put in the effort.
@bamesjond0069 And any guy could look like a professional bodybuilder / weightlifter if they put in the effort.
@bamesjond0069 Models are unhealthy since they underweight. Being underweight causes fertility issues. I have a skinny friend who gets preiod every three months.
@Smiley_face101 I'm the sick one? I don't know if your silly ass can read properly, but I said if we measure with the BMI, 4'7 and 110 IS overweight at 25 BMI. The other guy said it's at 4'11. You are clearly lacking in reading abilities and math skills, and your answers are emotionally driven. Obviously in this case a girl who is 4'7 is about 1st percentile, but since he used the example of 110 being overweight, I did the math calculation to get to which height is necessary to be considered overweight (25 BMI at least) at that level. Next time, wear some glasses.
@bamesjond0069 Personally speaking, I can care less about modeling standards. As long as she's not overweight or underweight, I'm good. Too many girls nowadays just want to get away with shit, and it's not even that hard to maintain a healthy bodyweight.
Asker. True but thats a higher standard than not fat. But ofc anyone can have a fitness body.
@Datboi65 i just go by models because thats what im used to dealing with and find the most attractive. I've never dated a girl weighing more than 120lbs and dont ever intend to. Anything above that i consider fat mostly unless she's very tall or a body builder that makes a difference ofc.
@bamesjond0069 "True but thats a higher standard than not fat."There's a huuuuge difference between "not fat" and "model body". As I said, "model body" is something that like 0.001% of the population has. While "not fat" isn't that rare.You said that "i just go by models because thats what im used to dealing with and find the most attractive." which is fair enough, but I gope you realize that calling everyone who doesn't look like a model is like calling everyone who's not the 1% poor. There's a huge segment between being poor and being the 1%.
Asker. I allowed for more options than obese and model body. For example i said 5 or 10lbs over model body is what i would call chubby.Also your comparison is not the same still because there's fat women and fat men, thin women and thin men, fit women and fit men. Models are only thin, fitness bodies take much more effort for both men and women. So comparing a male fitness body to a female thin body is not the same. The equivalent is a female fitness body.
"Not packing an extra 100+ pounds like in your picture. She could have another woman in her belly."I feel like you have a pretty distorted sense of weight, someone 100+ pounds extra would look far bigger than the image I used. 😅
I don't really care about weight numbers. That's a woman's obsession. Proportions matter more. And those are fugly fat, 'extra person' proportions to me.
Bro, you're being way too hard on her. She's not THAT fat!
@Jamie05rhs Ikr? That's more of a thick body type, not fat. Some people just naturally have large frames.
@Jamie05rhs When feminists started telling men that all women are beautiful and we have no right to have preferences I went the other way and raised my standards a lot. These are the same women who will reject a man based on his height, job, car and so on. I don't care if it's "hard". It's fair.
I'm 5'7" and only about 169lbs, that whole "You sweat and smell more, and your body will sag more." only really applies to noticeably larger people.
No, it applies to you. I dated a chubby girl once. I know. It does. And just knowing you are that weight I would never even consider you. That's just how it is. There's plenty of men that will fuck anything especially Latino men in America or Italian/French men in Europe but I'm not one of them.
"And just knowing you are that weight I would never even consider you."I'm not even that big lol, you have a pretty strict/demanding weight ideal for a partner. 😅Tho fair enough each for their own, congrats for being able to find your special someone.
thanks. best of luck.
Its not the girls weight, its the guy's small dick.
Per your update... my point there is that chubby is chubby in the eye of the beholder. You refer to it as if it is an agreed upon standard. Person B may find someone chubby... person C may find them fat... person D may find them curvy/thick. Each persons' individual mindset and tastes may play a roll in that too. Not everyone will be in agreement.