It's not cheating - it was just a kiss. You did make yourself look like you were easy/slut to his overly judgmental friends. Forget them.
The more important thing is how he will view it, and you. He probably doesn't judge you for it, but it's almost a 100% certainty he has assumed you're not interested in him.
It's entirely down to you to reverse this. It's not going to happen on its own, and he won't because he can't. If you don't reverse this, you can kiss any chance with him goodbye. He'll talk to you, sure, but he will never ever ask you out.
You need to fix this. But you probably won't. Women hate taking direct action.
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You sound very wrong in this situation, yeah. You wouldn't have kissed him if you knew he liked you? What kind of backwards insanity is that? This is the textbook example of a woman leading a guy on. The only thing missing is him buying you a bunch of stuff.
You didn't cheat on him. You said you're just friends with him. That's not cheating since you're not in a relationship with him. Just apologize to him. It's okay; everyone makes mistakes. Just be careful not to make the same mistake again.
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Sounds ridiculous. What do you want to happen next? Do you want to see the first guy again? His friends don't seem very nice.
Sounds to me like you're fucking around with multiple men's emotions as if their emotions don't matter
"You didn't know he liked you" Yeah, I start at safety for the Eagles too... such a lie.
Well I wouldn't want you any more.
If I were him I would find you gross and find someone else.Easy. trade places with the guy how would you feel if that happened to you?
You kissed him, and then you kissed another guy? That's fucked up.
Just means you have no self control
Likely drunkThat's called playing the field, and its fine as long as you are single.
Its not yoir fault but i say stay with the guy u like
why you worried about it now you already did it
You kissed two guys so yes
Yup, you stepped in the shit. Just leave him be.
you're a piece of shit
It's just a kiss
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