Does my boyfriend deleting a video that humiliated me as his girlfriend make the situation better?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend posted a video on his social media saying things about and to specific women that a guy who has a girlfriend shouldn’t say. He deleted the video and thinks that changed the fact he said the things he said.

[Aurora1010]

He should apologize too then it's up to you to accept the apology or not

[Twalli]

It doesn't change what he said, but it may signal that he feels genuinely bad about what he said and regrets it, which is something.

[Asker]

I was vague because it’s embarrassing for me to repeat and still say he is or was my boyfriend but I’ll only get vague answers if I have a vague description of what he said. He went live on Facebook while I was in the other room and since his rooms are spaced out he thought I didn’t/wouldn’t hear anything of what I’m about to tell you he said. He started to say things on the live that a guy who has a girlfriend shouldn’t say. He was arguing with women on live about how it’s unattractive for them to gangbang, why do you care what makes another woman unattractive when you have a girlfriend? And he was on there saying “Half of you women who claim these gangs, I know most of you and y’all have sucked my d*** before.” To one of the women who was going back and forth him I heard him say “You must want to suck my d*** and since you’re doing all this talking, hit my dm after this. I know you suck good d***.” Who says stuff like that publicly while your girlfriend is in the other room? Or at all? Long story short I left and haven’t spoken to him since but he’s been trying to contact me telling me he deleted the live video but it didn’t make me feel any better because he can’t delete what he said and how serious he was about it.

[spartan55]

You are being real vague about what was on that video. Why is that?

[SnakeBoop]

you're probably going to need to explain what he was saying.

[kyleelyn199723]

He shouldn’t be posting anyone without their permission. That is actually court worthy. I know you probably wouldn’t go that far, but it’s against the law to post people without consent

[Asker]

No he didn’t post their video or anything he just posted a video on his social media pretty much flirting with other women, he acknowledged those women by name to let them know he was flirting with them and I don’t even want to get into what he said because it was embarrassing to hear and watch seeing as he’s with me, well was. I haven’t spoken to him in a few days since he posted it. It hurt me that he would even do that and thought it was okay. He’s been calling and texting, I’ve been ignoring him and now he’s saying he deleted the video as if that makes it better because it doesn’t change the fact he said the things he said.

[kyleelyn199723]

Ahhh gotcha , but no that’s not a good quality in a boyfriend. Good boyfriends don’t entertain other women

[dustybiker]

Sounds more like a boy than a man. Is he worth it to you?

[Danny_dan92]

All you can pretty much do is report the video if possible under the conditions of harassment.

[JohnK123]

I got a complete different idea of what that question was about 🤣