What do I do when I get over a guy who started to like me back?

[Anonymous]

I like him at first but he didn't after a year or so I finally gave up and then I lost all my feeling for this guy. But now he's suddenly contacting me with interest

[FilmGuy93]

You said you alreayd lost your feelings for him? Just put some distance in the friendship. You don't need to see the guy, do you?

[Asker]

No I don't he lives in the states I have no interest anymore

[FilmGuy93]

Oh... well that should be easy then. Just change up your routine or something. Try a new hobby, or take a vacation or something along those lines.

[Summerneverends]

I've taken plenty vacations I've travelled to hawai alaska, a lot of the states and a lot. How so many hobbies drone filming, gym, themed cake baking and art. Way more than most girls can ever do

[FilmGuy93]

@Summerneverends Meh... just live your life and give yourself time. I don't really think there's a timeline for moving on.

[Anonymous]

Just let him do whatever he wants. If you don’t like him anymore you do not have to feel obliged to like him. He had his chance and he lost it. People only realize how impt things are when they finally lose them

[Asker]

Yes that's all what going on here so if I did become interested again I bet he would blow me off again. I remember I travelled far to meet up with him at the mall and he said that he wasn't coming at the last minute 🤷‍♀️

[awkward_author]

He might be interested because you don't like him anymore?

[Asker]

I'm just going to ignore him like he did when I was interested in him

[awkward_author]

If that's what you want to do, go for it.

[Asker]

I remember I travelled far to meet up with him at the mall and he said that he wasn't coming at the last minute 🤷‍♀️ fuck that

[awkward_author]

Oof. I'm sorry that happened. You deserve better.

[Asker]

He would also make sure he didn't leave anything behind when I visited him... what a jerk when I think back

[awkward_author]

How is that jerkish?

[Asker]

It was in a way so his other girls wouldn't find it lol

[awkward_author]

Ohhhh okay.

[Anonymous]

Take everything slow and get to know eachother

[Asker]

But I'm not interested now

[Opinion Owner]

So why ask the question. Tell him to move on

[Asker]

Just wanted advice really.

[BarryLiverstone]

Tell him no

[Asker]

he's a tad late to become into me now 🤣 ohwell

[BarryLiverstone]

He missed out

[Asker]

Has it ever happen to you

[BarryLiverstone]

It has

[BarryLiverstone]

What kinda advice?

[Asker]

Do feelings ever come back

[BarryLiverstone]

Depends on the feelings. But yes they can. Are you attracted to him?

[Asker]

Not now im not my feelings went completely I was mad for him once tho

[BarryLiverstone]

I don’t mean emotionally I mean physically. If he was a stranger would you look at him?

[Asker]

Yeah I would

[BarryLiverstone]

Often people change so keep in mind he’s not the same guy. But it’s worth going out and seeing what happens. You can be honest and let him know you are willing to go on a few dates and then give him some feedback, if you are single might as well.