Why would a 300lb guy at a party hit on a 105lb girl?

[Anonymous]

I was at a party and I don't know if I was the only single girl there. But the fattest guy at the party just kind of set his sights on me.

I'm like tiny so we were both two extremes. Wherever I went in the house, he would literally follow me (I know he was trying not to come off like he was following me) but I pay close attention to my surroundings I could tell he was set on pursuing me.

There were times where my mom called me and I stepped outside into the backyard to talk and I could see him watching me from the inside of the house. It seemed like he kept his eye on me the entire time. It was really creepy.

He was polite and I think he meant well. I am a introvert so there were a few times where I wasn't talking constantly to someone and he could easily come in and start talking to me.

I give him props for having the confidence but I'm the tiniest girl there and he's like the biggest... I just think wouldn't a guy that size want a girl around his weight?

[jshm2]

Probably got a kink for petite girls.

One of my work colleagues is like that. He's over 6ft but dates midgets. Says he likes "throwing them around". I did speak to one of his girls at a party, and he's not abusive, but very... shall we say.. energetic.

[DryGermanGuy]

„Have you ever even actually killed anybody, really? Falling asleep on someone doesn’t count!“ - Malcolm Tucker, In The Loop

[HighValue]

He wouldn't want a girl the same weight as him because they would crack the driveway of their house and possibly cause the floor to cave in. lol j/k

[steveRogers12]

Why not try? Low probability of success but high payoff if successful

[Anonymous]

No. That's like tall only want tall etc. For him, he was just interested in you period. You were the only one focused on the size.

[awkward_author]

Not necessarily. People like what they like, and he found you attractive.

[Anonymous]

Seriously? Why do you think fat people must be attracted to other fat people?

[Asker]

Well for one I'm out of his league

[Opinion Owner]

Well, despite your arrogance and self importance, he obviously finds you physically attractive. It's generally an attractive trait to most women when a man has confidence and goes after what he wants.

He would, of course, realize he is better off without you if he knew how ugly you are n the inside.

[Asker]

Hey I just don't date fat dudes. Just like how most men care about weight as well. I know you care about weight, either she's super skinny or super fat, you wouldn't date her. Don't make me out to be the bad guy just because I have preferences. Weight is an issue for everyone.

[Opinion Owner]

You're not wrong about most guys not wanting to date fat girls. But it takes a special kind of person to be so bothered about someone who doesn't meet their standards showing interest in them that they felt compelled to post a question like this on a public form asking why.

I mean, the answer to why the guy did it is obvious to anyone with a brain. But you were just super put out by it, which says something really important about your character and the color of your heart. You were too full of yourself to feel an ounce of compassion for the guy.

By the way, this is not a gender thing. If a guy posted five paragraphs on the internet about how bothered he was because a fat girl showed interested in him at a party, and she obviously was "not in his league", I would call him a heartless piece of shit too.

[Asker]

Lol you counted the paragraphs. Girls are different than guys, we like to complain about nothing. We just like to talk and vent things out. Obviously, you don't get that. You are resorting to insulting me, which means this might be hitting too close to home for you. Calm down it's not that big of a deal to get so worked up. God be with you and I'll pray for you. Be happy.

[Anonymous]

They're the most fun in bed. Love a belly and big cock

[DonkeyDan]

Maybe he was hungry and was looking for a snack 😂

[Wise4myage]

He's got a shit load of self confidence.

[888theGreat]

hit on or rolled over on?