LOL! This should be deemed the GAG question of the year!
I really want feedback from my lady! I have never had exactly what I think would be perfect:
She's gives me quiet feedback in the form of oohs and aahs—so that I know I'm on the right track. When she's getting aroused, I like some excitement in her voice! I want to hear things telling me what is her favorite move I'm making and whatever else that tells me to stay on course!
A guy really hates to be guessing all the time, you know?
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There's a huge tendency to want to pick an extreme or choose from extreme positions, but I think most people are much happier with the middle ground. If you rated things 1 to 10, I would guess that most would prefer ANYTHING to be in the 4-7 range rather than a 1 or a 10. Some might prefer something more like a 4, and some may prefer more of a 7, but very few people are looking for something on the very ends of the bell curve.
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Loud and confident are not the same. I don't like anyone being overly loud for the space they are in or loud noises in general. (I recognize that some people simply can't register how loud they are in public and that everyone has different volume sensitivities. In fact, some even say I'm not loud enough, when I thought I was.) As for confident people, I like them just fine.
An independent and fearless mind is THE thing that I am drawn to most in a woman. That could be because I’m more the quiet and subdued type. It makes it more interesting for me to talk openly with someone who gives me their opinions openly and makes me feel like they will be more receptive to my thoughts and feelings provided they also have an open mind. A strong confident women who also can’t make any concession to being wrong on something is sure to make me look for the exit.
I prefer confident. But not loud. Quiet and unique, yet comfortable to be expressive with others/I. I believe a balance of both is necessary in a relationship, friendship, or etc. Subdued, I rather have any women I encounter be more free and expressive.
This is a tough one, I've always been into both types of girls really. Never dated one that was as you say "middle-ground" though so couldn't say anything there. If I had to pick one I'd I'm more into the quiet shy types because I like to take things slow and then pick up from there as time flies not that I have problems with loud talkative types or anything.
the loud and proud ones make me feel like I'm doing something right thus making the experience more enjoyable. of course just as long as she doesn't blow my ear drums
"Loud" and "confident" rarely go together. Confident people don't often feel the need to be loud.
Loud and proud sounds like an obnoxious and entitled woman who is self-involved. There's nothing appealing about a church mouse either who thinks or wants nothing. Balance is always the answer.
I like loud and proud. Although, I was with one girl that was a little too loud and everyone in the apartment building knew when I was having sex with her. Lol
I'm usually very quiet myself and tend to like both, though I prefer quieter girls.
I like a woman too be comfortable being herself around me☺️🎭
Loud and proud I’m a very talkative person myself so I like to have somebody around who has the same energy as me
Confidence is way more attractive.
Just don't be obnoxious about it.Quiet and subdued. I don’t want the girl that is going to pick a fight with everyone in public and expect me to back her up every time.
I like energetic, expressive women. I am fairly outgoing but damn I cannot carry the conversation by myself 24/7, you feel me?
Loud and squealing,,.. nothing better than to make a girl squeal her feelings and emotions while enjoying herself
Quiet and confident.
I ain't believing the confidence of anyone who has to be loud.The bratty sllutty subs are quickly subdued, just gotta be a little mean to keep'em keen.
What do you call subdued?
I usually like quiet people, as I'm a very shy, soft and quiet guy in person.I like them both, but loud proud disagreeable ones seem to like me more hahaha
I think quiet and shy is better to a point. There should be some middle ground.
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