I mean it's like you said we will never know unless you want to ask him directly. now if he took you on a date and rejected you after then maybe you just weren't the kind of person he was looking for. maybe you weren't as attractive as he thought, could be something you said, could be a mixture of possibilities and there is nothing wrong with that. Love is a numbers game.
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Same thing happened to me and I know how hard it is... But that doesn't mean that you're not good enough... It means that you're enough to someone else, maybe he is not the right person... So move on, do something that makes you feel special about yourself, remind yourself of your good traits, you deserve better and if someone ever rejects you then that's probably his loss
Yeah, most likely. You guys went out, he didn't like you, if he did, then he wouldn't have rejected you.
Were you not good enough, maybe. He just didn't like you. Does it help you at all to know why? He's not gonna change his mind. And it won't apply to the next man that you date. So really you know is just to beat yourself up.
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Unless you ask and he’s willing to discuss it, you cannot know. It could be as simple as him not feeling compatibility. But don’t dwell on it. You should want to find a man who wants to be with you, so move on from ones who do not. He’s doing you a favor by not stringing you along and wasting your time.
Maybe there wasn't any chemists or he felt you did not have enough in common. I won't do that after a first date, but I could see three dates. One date is not enough to get to know someone well enough.
Same things a girl friend zones for, lack of physical attraction, lack of sexual chemistry, can't see themselves being intimate with that person but still might like their personality.
It could just be that he just didn't feel a connection. You're pretty, so unless it was a blind date, it wasn't a matter of lack of attraction.
It's because you acted weird at the movie. Let it go already.
Yep. Lack of attraction. Could be physical or emotional, but the attraction isn't there.
For the sake of you, and your well-being, let it go
Guy's don't friendzone. They reject. If you got rejected, it means he's he doesn't find you attractive.
It is not about good enough, it is chemistry. In my experience, guys form their preferences in childhood and that is just that.
Lack of attraction or someone else has peek his interest
ya it’s really only if she’s not physically attractive
Either a hard nope on the personality or just no sexual attraction.
@anonbrunette99 He friend zones a girl if there are no compatible values & shared interests.
maybe it was your choice for a movie
the ONLY way to know is to ask... "HIM"
Can it be his insecurities?
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