Why does he not post any pictures of his girlfriend or status on Facebook, instagram or tiktok?

[Shirley444]

I am having a debate with my coworker. We know someone who is in a serious live in relationship. However, he has no posts of his girlfriend on tiktok, instagram or Facebook. And he never likes or comments on her posts. My coworker is a guy and says that is not unusual. I think it is odd. What is your take? You would think he is single. She posts all the time.

[Anonymous]

my take on this is that you want that guy and trying to find reasons as to why he doesn't like or love his current girlfriend just to satisfy your ego because you want him to want you. Pathetic. Move on to the next and stop worrying about how others live their love life. Wether he posts or not, it is not your business. Not everyone lives on the internet. Not everyone feels the need to prove to people that they like or love who they are with by posting heart stickers or kissing photos and such. SMH the ignorance of people who want to ruin relationships in their own head when the relationship is perfectly fine.

[Shirley444]

This is not about me. They are our coworkers and friends. We are bored and gossiping. Don't read into it. 😂

[Opinion Owner]

they only reason anyone would want an answer to your question or want anyones opinion making it a big deal is because there's an interest there. find your own love life.

[Shirley444]

Think what you want. I think you are coming up with stuff in your head. Maybe that is your experience. I am trying to prove my coworker wrong and that is it.

[Opinion Owner]

right.

[uwu_princess]

The fact that someone is in the relationship, it doesn't mean he/she has to send 7482817 pics on fb/ig with this person. Tbh I don't like it too.
I see no sense. They don't have to show others they are in love. Also the fact that he doesn't like her posts, its nothing bad.. 'Likes' on fb don't give the love...

[magiusX26]

not all of us feel a need to broadcast our personal lives for the whole world to see. especially for mostly strangers to know. it does not concern them so is none of their business. so as yoyr coworker said, not posting like that is not unusual. not posting is in fact usually a sign of mental maturity.

[magiusX26]

too often these days, young people (mostly) worry about unimportant shit and ignore the important things involved in a relationship. "s/he is not reacting to my stories" meanwhile s/he is literally in the same room with you, often holding you close but your more worried about the social media aspect.

[VikingWarLord]

If he's attractive, he may wanna keep his options open.
Ironically though, it would work best for him if these other biitches knew he was in a relationship, because I've noticed when I'm dating a chic, other biitches want me MORE.

[Phsk_wmn]

He could just be a private person who doesn't want to share his romantic relationship online. My boyfriend is like that, he never stalks my social media accounts too and never likes any of my posts but that's just how he is. I also thought it was unusual at first but after I got to know him better I don't think too much about it anymore

[boggboss]

Because they don't care for the validation of strangers on the relationship

[boggboss]

Been with my girl for 5 years and prepping to propose to her yet never posted about her online because I'm enjoying my life dont need others to know

[Stoner710]

Maybe he doesn’t really use them I don’t really use Facebook I don’t have Twitter or TikTok or instagram so no pictures

[spartan55]

Guys don't think social media is nearly as important as girls. Like not even close.

[melanieeeB]

Cause Social media isn't that important, it's not your business if he posts his relationship or not

[qwert1234]

The real question is, why the need to post these stuff online?

[In_Trance]

because they're all lame and he's not an attention whore

[Wise4myage]

Some guys are just more private.

[May_Summers]

He might be a private person which is quite normal

[JohnK123]

He doesn’t need to do that

[driven159]

people are more private than others