I sent him a message asking if he wants me to break contact?

[bubbles08]

I text him asking if he wanted me to and he didn’t respond for like 4 days so I took the hint and deleted his number. He text me on the 4th day saying “I wasn’t ignoring you purposely I’ve just been dying at work “

Ik when guys use the “busy” excuse it usually hints at rejection..

[Anonymous]

Not sure what you’re asking, but if you aren’t communicating and you’re talking about breaking off contact, obviously it isn’t working out. I’d say move on. My job requires me to basically be on duty for three days straight at a time and I’ll always find a way to send a text, even if it’s just a quick message on my break.

[bubbles08]

I’m asking if he is really rejecting me or if he is busy... he did text saying he wasn’t ignoring me.. I don't know how to feel about it

[bubbles08]

What type of job do you have?

[Opinion Owner]

I drive for a medical lab. I’m about 10 hours into my shift and an hour behind on a busy day and I found the time to respond to a total stranger. Not saying he is rejecting you, but he isn’t making you a priority at the very least. Maybe I’m old fashioned, but when I’m with a woman, I make sure she feels like a priority in my life.

[bubbles08]

Well he did say that he wasn’t at point in his life where he’s looking for a relationship because of his job. Being a probationary ff so ig I don't know

He does text when he can but there’s still no excuse

[Opinion Owner]

If he said he isn’t looking for a relationship, he isn’t looking for a relationship. I would say move on, unfortunately. There’s plenty of good guys who are looking for a relationship and will treat you right.

[bubbles08]

Why did he take a picture of him at his job then say he’s dying at work (tired) then talk about seeing his mom for the first time in a few weeks

[bubbles08]

He did this after I told him to delete my number

[Opinion Owner]

I would imagine he likes having a girl to talk to and string along and keep his options open. I know if I’m talking to a girl that I like I would never say I’m not interested in a relationship. A guy only does that if he’s either really not interested in a relationship or he wants to have you around to sleep with when he wants without ever having to commit. I could be totally wrong too though so I don't know. I don’t personally like the sound of this guy though.

[bubbles08]

He was actually pretty nice with what he said.. I just saw he wasn’t ready for one. What he said was “I can’t give you what you want and if you found someone who can then I really want that for you.. I really do hope you’re happy “ “you can take this the wrong way but I know how I feel about it “

Is what he said

[Opinion Owner]

That means he isn’t interested. It sounds like he’s uncomfortable being direct about it to not hurt your feelings. Probably a decent enough guy who just doesn’t see a relationship with you unfortunately.

[bubbles08]

Yeah it really dawned on me like yesterday.. I was confused because usually guys just move on.. but he said he really enjoyed talking to me and he did say we can be friends and nothing else

I really was not looking at the signs because I just liked him so much and I’m thinking “oh , he enjoys talking to me “ a guy never said that before

But I always have this issue where guys want to fuck me but not date me. A guy has actually told me that

When he started texting me less I just thought he was busy but I would see his Snapchat scores go up every hour.. I was heartbroken.. we talked for like 3 months..

I told him if I looked like another girl he would respond fast and he said “stop putting yourself down” “you’re beautiful as you are just stop”

But yet he doesn’t want me... then he made a weird comment

I asked if he had a type and he said many types “including yours” 😟

[bubbles08]

I really am considering plastic surgery lol I’m just unhappy with my self and I’m unlovable.. never been in a serious relationship

[Opinion Owner]

Please don’t do plastic surgery. It always makes people look way worse. You’re a lovely girl, you’ll find someone eventually. You’re just having some bad luck with gross guys. You have a good personality and I’m sure you don’t need plastic surgery. Just don’t get caught up chasing guys who aren’t interested and you’ll find someone genuine.

[bubbles08]

What did he mean when I asked him what his type was and he said many including yours?

[Opinion Owner]

I guess he was trying to say that you’re his type, but if he isn’t acting like he’s seriously interested in you then he’s probably just leading you on. It sounds like you’re going after a lot of younger, immature guys. If I like a girl and am interested in it, I make sure she knows and feels confident and secure in my feelings for her. I don’t say sneaky little things to mess with her head.

[Opinion Owner]

This is my 6 hour period where I can get some sleep before going back into work, but feel free to keep me updated and I’ll respond when I wake up. I like talking to you.

[bubbles08]

Okay! Thank you for your help 🙏

[Opinion Owner]

No problem 👍