I honestly don’t find it attractive when a guy cries. Is that really wrong of me? (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

Honestly I don't blame you for thinking that he's unattractive for crying, men are not supposed to cry, men are supposed to be strong and hold in their emotions to be seen as a strong-willed leader. Women don't want a man that cries because he will be seen as a weakling, so no it's not wrong of you to think that because you're right.

[SometimesASiren]

That's messed up. Everyone cries. Also, if a man is crying to you, his goal is to be vulnerable and transparent with you, not turn you on.

[TheFlak38]

nothing wrong with that. and yes you're right. Any girl that says it's so cool when guys cry is a pathetic liar.

[OneManOnly01]

Not at all. Most girls like guys who are dominant and confident so they don’t like it when a guy cries

[Twalli]

So if his family dies he should tough it out? I don't cry if I'm hurt. I just said Ow when I almost accidentally cut my own finger off. I would probably cry if my dog died, she's the only one that will love me unconditionally

[Dchrls78104]

Any man who dates a girl with the mindset expressed in this question has become involved with the wrong woman and should look elsewhere for companionship.

[Anonymous]

Well, you admit it, which is something, but men are human too you know. We have feelings and emotions.

[Luopio27]

I have grown to believe that showing weakness is a red light not to be crossed. Sometimes, even caring is a weakness.

[Anonymous]

Crying isn't supposed to be attractive on anyone. But let me tell you as a person who used to let there emotions bottle up until it pops. It's not healthy I always felt worse about myself after and the cycle would keep repeating itself.

[JustiReno]

I cried when I found my ex was pregnant but I was happy 😭

[dolemite89]

unless it over the death of a loved one or from a serious injury, i agree to some extent. Men are supposed to be the stoic, strong ones that keep women safe.

[Anonymous]

We're used to it. Just be honest with the guys you date and tell them you won't be there for them when they're down. We understand

[ChiTown33]

I don't know. Is it wrong that I don't really care what you find attractive? 🤣

[CuriousMufuxka]

Well the difference I've found is between private and public. I personally agree with your opinion, and rare as it is, understand why you went anon.

[bamesjond0069]

An honest woman! Yes all the other girls are lying.

[Im_a_girl_lol]

nah i find it cute and I'M NOT LYING dont care if you dont believe BUT YOU SHOULd cUz itS tHe trRuTh

[Juxtapose]

You don't want a relationship, you want a stereotype come to life.

[Anonymous]

That's fine. We'll only have to stay away from you altogether.

[Reijen]

Guy should be able to cry if he lost a dog or loved one.

[TurkishDİxon3419]

People cry to drain their troubles. Not to look nice.

[tponderingundead]

i'd rather know someone has emotions than none at all.