Why does he want me to buy a mustang?

[Anonymous]

I always wanted a mustang since I was a kid but I just dont want to spend so much money on one. I dont have a house I rent a room and dont earn that much money. I feel its not worth paying stupid car insurance and having stress of where to park it so that nobody scratches/dents it. I just get so much anxiety about my money dropping so fast I feel he doesn't understand how horrible it feels. I know myself that I wouldn't even enjoy it because there is too much worry over joy. He keeps insisting me to buy a used one and that I sell my old car. I keep saying I dont know and its so frustrating that he gets upset. Like what the hell its my money I decide what I want to spend on it because at the end of the day I'm responsible.

[anton_dee]

Continue with your job, lose the parasite.

Always remember, when you buy a vehicle (car or bike) you must have at least 1.5 times the money the vehicle gonna cost, coz you need to do insurance, maintenance, etc...

[Asker]

Yup thats why I get so much anxiety because I know I won't be able to save money anymore I will just go downhill from there

[DARKCLOUD1945X]

You answered your own question he wants to spend YOUR money not his. This is the way he always going to be if you marry him, he will have a savings account not you and when he decides to leave, he will have money you won't WATCH OUT!

[Asker]

Wow you know what I didn't think about that part! Thats so true. He actually brags he has more money than me

[Waldoe]

tell him that you are hoping he will buy one for you on your Birthday or Christmas... but if he does, you hope he will also buy insurance too... then ask him, when are you going to give me this gift? and every time he asks you... reply "Where is my gift?"

[spartan55]

If he is so hell bent on you getting a Mustang tell him to buy you one. What does he drive?

[Asker]

He drives a kia sol lol

[spartan55]

Ahhh, ol boy wants to drive your Mustang then. What a tool. Is he your best option?

[Asker]

I dont think he's worth it anymore always making me feel miserable

[spartan55]

That's not what a relationship is supposed to be.

[EmmaMary]

Just who the hell is "He"?

[Asker]

boyfriend

[EmmaMary]

In that case it's time you had a new, more responsible boyfriend.

[MrOracle]

@EmmaMary Yep.

[exitseven]

Tell him to buy his own Mustang.