When I’m out at a club guys always hit on me but are reluctant to buy me a drink why is this? do guys only buy “hot girls” drinks?

[Anonymous]

They will come over to talk to me then be like sure I’ll get you a drink but never offer or seem keen to do so. Why is this? Just weirdos at the bar or do guys only buy “hot girls” drinks?

It’s like I’ll say oh let’s a get a drink and they are like okay sure it’s never like yeah Ofc what do you want.

Or do guys buy even just average girl drinks?

Like this weekend this guy came up to me (30 years old) and said you are stunning etc do you have a boyfriend etc

Then was so weird when we were at the bar I said let’s do shots and he was like Um yeah sure and got us one.

Only buy hot girls drinks

They are just weirdos at the bar

[Anonymous]

I don't buy women drinks at all. I'm not paying for the privilege of talking to someone for ten minutes, and anyone who can't afford their own drinks needs to take their broke ass home. I've known too many women who will go out and get drunk for free and then brag about how many losers were trying to get with them when they had no chance.

[FriendlyCanadianGuy]

I don't buy women drinks anymore, once you realize they are just trying to try drunk on your expense, kinda shit feeling

[knallpilz]

Sounds like they're taken aback by your being so upfront.
Most guys tend to feel more comfortable with girls being a little more reluctant and "passive". You know, making them work for it a bit. So you're probably just throwing them off their game and they're confused.

Just out of couriosity: Do they all stay confused or does anyone ever recover? :D

Also: You might vibe better with the more timid guys you'd have to approach. You know, the type of guy who's usually not at a club or a bar. :D