Why does thinking about my coworker comfort me? Ehy has he become a daddy figure in my head/heart?

[Udierbr]

Ok so i have been avoiding him because he hurt me. I don't know if he meant to r not but yeah. So then we have been avoiding each other. But i miss him and ever since we have bt been talking i keep imagining him fondly as my daddy figure. Like just thinking about him and kissing him LOL and sitting on his lap and I don't know why he's a daddy to me in my mind because we never had such an interaction. Think its all because how he stared at me before. It felt like he was trying to look at my soul but he wasn't even trying hard he was relaxed but just those eyes i guess it left an impression on me and now i can't stop dreaming of him as my dad. I am a little obsessed. But he has no idea.

[PrettyPriya]

It is likely good the two of you are avoiding each other. Seems as if you have a dangerous obsession with this coworker. Should he find out, he could go to HR or management if he doesn't view it the same way.

That could end up costing you your job. All for what too? This is why I always stand by the statement that workplace relationships are not a good idea. It is why many companies prohibit them.

When things go wrong, it disrupts business, something that no manager/executive is going to want to see. You are there to make a living. The business is there to succeed. Leave the relationship out of it.

[mayur1598]

You are totally correct... But i don't think she is here to hear such comment... She is here so someone will encourage her to go ahead... And thats really sad...

[PrettyPriya]

@mayur1598 I don’t doubt you one bit. I will not be that person.

[mayur1598]

Thats really grate...

[mayur1598]

Great*

[Udierbr]

@mayur1598 you are being judgmental and rude and if you are here to talk down to someone go somewhere else because i am not interested.

[mayur1598]

I'm being judgmental and rude... What are you talking about... I wanted good for you... And don't want you to do something that will affect your career... And here you are saying I'm rude and choose most helpful opinion that is saying how he will treat you like he is your daddy... You are the one hypocrite here... Saying i need help and treating someone who is helping saying you are rude... I'm just showing you the mirror what you are doing... I think you are here so just you can tell your fantasy to everyone... This is not this place... Think about it... I replied before after seeing you liked the reply of the guy who is saying intimate thing and who is really saying good things that will help you, didn't even say thanks to them...

[Guy13]

You poor little girly. Too bad I can’t be there to stroke your hair and hold you tight. Daddy welcomes your attention…because good girls show proper respect. It’s the good ones like you that I enjoy rocking to sleep in my arms 👧

[Guy13]

Fyi, 20-22s in university or just graduating…some are the same way. You’re sweet and not odd.

[Guy13]

It’s okay, you know. I can get you through this difficult time until things come together for you. My little girly would understand and she’s working in the other room. She knows that I’m a kind Daddy. 👴

[Guy13]

Shoot me Message or accept my follow you cute little princess

[Avicenna]

is there romantic attraction or do you just want attention and validation from him?

[Udierbr]

I dont get it. Thats the same thing.

[bingbongbangbung]

Maybe they cast a love spell on you? Lol I know it's stupid, but I don't know what else.

[Udierbr]

Haha

[Iron_Man]

Never mix business with pleasure on the job