Guys... A popular scorpio guy and a normal virgo girl?

[Anonymous]

He's one of the most popular guys in the whole 10th grade n he dmed me to ask about my pfp (which was a webtoon character that we both liked n we bonded over the comics n stuff) turns out he doesn't even know me n also didn't know that we were in the same division for 3 years (4, 5, 6th grade) and now he wants to find out who I am so he's asking me a bunch of questions now...

I'm kinda a loner in my school n I'm also kinda insecure of what he'll think of me when he gathers all this info on me (keep in mind that our 10th is over, we'll go to 11th this year)

What do y'all think I should do? Should I just straight out tell him that I had normal friends and a single bff? or maybe twist the truth? I don't know what to do...

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Hey so I realise that I was just too fixated on the "popular scorpio guy" idea but I'm gonna go n treat him like a normal person... wish me luck

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I treated him like a normal person n we just recommend each other comics now... that's enough for me because I don't like him yet but I do think he has credible qualities n that we get along well as just friends ✨

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Popular scorpio girl right here 👋🏻

I was obsessed over zodiac at about 17-18 as well and the more I learned the more I realized that the zodiac has nothing to do with compatibility.

What can decide the future of both of you is - you and him, so be honest but a bit playful as well. Don’t be an open book, keep something as a mystery, he’ll like it more, most of popular guys in high school had crush on me and I know how I kept them chasing me - I was playful and mysterious for them.

It will work for you as well, he’s used to female attention, so be different, don’t shower him with attention.

[Asker]

That's understandable, thanks :)

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Thanks for MHO and I hope all is going well 💓

[PrettyPriya]

I would not base your decision on astrology. You should be basing decisions about a relationship based on the value and qualities of the person you like. Things like intelligence, personality, etc.

Astrology has no play in this unless you really believe in it. I don’t. I’d much rather choose my partner based on qualities that actually matter. Plus, at your age, I was more focused on school, not as much on boys and astrology.

[ShadowMonarch]

So here's the thing,
1. there is no scientific evidence that prove that constellation are true.
2. Never ever change yourself so you can become someone who you aren't,
Sooner or later when he talks to you, he will realise that you weren't transparent.
3. what do you think about him?
You like him?

[Asker]

I'll reply in points too :)

1) I agree, ig I've just been too obsessed w astrology signs rn

2) yeah I've been thinking about how I don't want to lie to him and about not wanting to change myself just cuz of this guy who I haven't even talked w for long

3) my first impression on him was "he's so popular" (in a negative light), I don't know I always felt like he was arrogant before n now ig I like how he's passionate about his likes n stuff he cares about, does that mean I like him? I'd prob box it n say it's a crush

[Freyke]

Take this from a person with more life experience.
Do not look at popularity. Look at personality. And decide from there.

[whereismyjohnny]

Astrology signs don't mean anything.

Also, I'd tell him the truth.

[Asker]

hey yeah ik it's prob not nice to judge people like that but ig astrology signs were my recent lazy hobby

I'm gonna go n try to tell him, wish me luck ✨

[trysomethingnwe]

In my opinion I wouldn't go for astrology signs, it has been disproven to be real over and over again. But the choice to believe in it or not is, in my opinion, something everybody has to decide on their own.

[Avicenna]

Bs honest