What is the kind of love you want?

[Kkstarzz96]

I think I've always wanted to put whoever I was dating in a mold. I'd fantasize there was nothing to tweak and he would be like this already where he'd surprise me and sing to me and make sure I went to bed smiling like he'd be silly and at the same time when we'd be indifferent he wouldn't stop thinking about me and play out this fight until we realized how stupid it was and passionately kiss and caress me so I'd know we're still in sync. I've had scenarios where a guy would act even better than my own imagination but i don't think he was doing it to win me over, unlike my fantasies, it was me falling for the actual person being themselves in a certain light. maybe it's that i don't mind to slowly get to know the person but it's that I never know if he thinks about our love the way I do, I wish I'd know by him sharing his utmost desires of our romance, and not just the physical acts any girl could do. like the personal details that can't be mimicked. is that making any sense?

[WhitneySnow]

Your idea of love sounds amazing

[Kkstarzz96]

LMAO I don't think my kind of guy exists, unless he was like multiple people.

[WhitneySnow]

Still sounds awesome 😊

[Kkstarzz96]

thank you ❤

[WhitneySnow]

You’re welcome 💗

[WhitneySnow]

Thanks for MHO 😊

[Mess96]

This for sure

[Mess96]

Thank you

[MCheetah]

Genuine love. A woman who accepted me 100% as I am. Most all women I've met (aside from the one I almost married) want me to be tall/not-short, or in much better super-athletic shape, or lighter skinned (white), or more egotistical or arrogant, and so on. I would just want genuine love.

I'd love if a woman out there existed that fully accepted me as I am, but I'm also not naïve enough to believe they would exist, so I don't think about dating anymore. I'll never be tall enough for modern women with my short 180 cm ass, and I'll never be good enough looking for them, either. I think I've got the personality down pretty good though, with the one thing being I'm no Mister Sunshine with rainbows shooting out my ass.

[Kkstarzz96]

5'10' isn't short. and I actually detested this guy i was talking to who steered away from every slightly negative topic. I actually feel better when someone can relate to my bitterness cause it means I'm not alone. to a lot of people, I have a negative mindset. but I'm just opinionated about shit i care about lol.

[MCheetah]

5'10" is 177.5 cm, not 180. And I f*cking loathe being short for several reasons, not just because no women are interested in short men of that height. Women is just one reason of several dozen why it sucks.

And I'm trying to work on being less negative, especially after a question from @lottiebannotie, but I've lived a pretty negative life with abusive people in it, and I'm still single mostly for things out of my control, so it's not always easy for me to fart rainbows and be all gumdrops and sunshine like people want. I still am unhappy at times that I got a pretty raw deal in life, but I try not to display it to the world.

[Sabretooth]

https://gundam.fandom.com/wiki/Allenby_Beardsley

[Sabretooth]

I... couldn't ask for more. it would be a baptize. I only want but am never satisfied. there's nothing nothing for me here... nothing but pain. as a Jehovah's witness--I believe in a resurrection and a perfect world... but that won't give me my only desire--it won't satisfy my hunger... I don't belong there, either... not yet--it won't give me a life worth my while.

[Slim57]

I want someone on equal terms of mine, I'm always the one loving more and I'm tired of it

[Andres77]

Girl... what have you been drinking?

[Andres77]

You've got to start by looking in the right place.
Then you need to sacrifice... as does he.
What you want is good but are you willing to do the work?

[Anonymous]

true love... wtf is this a trick question!

[Kkstarzz96]

true love is different for each person. if a guy can be vulnerable about how he feels about me, then we have trust, and that is true love to me.

[Opinion Owner]

I guess you agree then that everyone wants true love. The question should be "what is true love for you?"

[Kkstarzz96]

true love is a term used for fairytales which my idea is, but to steer away from judgment, I picked the wording so you'd share like what does your idea of a relationship look like, in specific details. but I do see your point

[Berhudarol]

Long term