Why do men randomly threaten to say “if I still keep you” when talking about future plans?

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I feel I already know the answer and I don’t want to hear it but the same time I need to hear it.
Like I’m the most loyal, caring girlfriend anyone can ever have. When I get asked a favor from
Him, I say yes and never say no or complain. I do everything out of love and respect. I do not cheat, I do not talk bad behind his back, I do not hang out with the opposite gender; out of respect and it makes me uncomfortable when I’m in a relationship. I’m encouraging, I cook for him when I go to his house. Etc. He hasn’t said that phrase in awhile…not since the first time around we dated so I don’t know if I should be worried that’s he’s gonna leave me or if just saying that if he found someone else I don't know. Last week I told him “ily” for the first time ever and he told me “he isn’t going anywhere” but the other night he said “if I keep you then” what the hell is that suppose to mean?
Why do men randomly threaten to say “if I still keep you” when talking about future plans?
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