Why are most men cheap ass pigs who have no remorse, conscience and always playing with women?

[Anonymous]

They have the audacity to lie, manipulate and twist stories to lure you towards them.

They pretend to be someone they're not.
They pretend to be emotional, caring, honest and loyal.

They are ALWAYS looking to fuck multiple women.
They quickly get bored and run away when things get real.

• Women on the opposite put up with every crap the guy throws at her yet STILL stays loyal and loves him like an idiot.
  
• She is taken for granted.
  
• Seen as an object/challenge.
  
• Ignored when he doesn't need her
• Lied to, played with no matter the consequences on her heart.

10 years of my life, I've been observing this.


I always supported guys and argued that there are more good guys but now after years of seeing this cruelty, I am really disappointed.

[Twalli]

There are a lot of good guys. They're in relationships, because a girl who was with bad guys found him and keeps him.
I want to be loved for me, so I would never try to be what I think a girl I like wants. I want her to want me, and not want her to want what I am showing her to get her to want me. I am extremely emotional, caring, honest, and loyal. Girls have told me that they wish their boyfriend was as emotional, caring, honest, or as loyal as I am. Usually it's only one, but I doubt that I would get that comment from any girl if I didn't have those qualities about most guys. While I think it may be exciting to fuck multiple women, I don't seek it out. If my girlfriend was willing to try adding other girls/women into our sex life, I would go for it, but it's not something I am seeking. I have always looked for something real. I will admit I never thought I'd find it on my first try, but I was looking.

[Asker]

Good. Even I got lust but that doesn't mean I'll be an opportunistic player who will stab my partner's heart behind their backs.

[TallnBig]

Oh baby
Turn around and look at the guys that you didn't give the time of day to
You're chasing the wrong ones
Let a real man show how you should be treated and appreciated

[MCheetah]

Don't know. Why are most Western women under 30 selfish, narcissitic womanchildren who can barely take care of their own lives or keep their apartments clean, but demand perfect men making six figures like their pussy is the Holy Grail?

They have the audacity to lie, manipulate and twist stories to lure you into losing every dollar you have. They pretend to be hotter than they really are using makeup, push-up bras, high heels, app filters, etc. They pretend to be emotional, caring, loving, and monogamous, but will f*ck Chad or Tyrone the very minute you don't kiss their ass and then blame YOU for their cheating. They are ALWAYS looking to f*ck you out of every dollar you get. If you're not a "provider" to them and keeping their purses full of cash and their closets full of shoes, they get bored and divorce you the second crap gets real and the paychecks stop coming in.

Fifteen years of my life, I've been witnessing this female foolishness!

Why ARE modern women so bad?
I do ask myself so often!
Hmmm...

[hahahmm]

Tons of women say they don't want to be traditional. But they want dudes who are traditional (when it benefits her). You women and the guys who worship you have created a society where there is no incentive for guys to be traditional. Your own actions have created this situation. But if I tell a woman to stop acting like a whore... I'm told it's wrong to shame her. They can't even comprehend what it means to have basic level class that almost every woman had 30 years ago. Okay then keep acting in ways that tell dudes you can't be trusted. Keep collecting ex boyfriends like they're poker chips. You aren't going to get anywhere like this. The best time to improve one's self is between relationships. People who are in a new relationship right after the old are like old clothes in a washing machine that never turns off.

You wanna change it's pretty simple.. become more traditional. You will naturally attract better quality dudes -- or maybe some of the same old dudes except they will see you as worth more.

[Lionman95]

Sorry I can understand where you´re coming from.
The problem I think is that guys are often too self focused and many guys know women mostly through porn. The problem I see in modern society is that a raising number of guys don´t spend much time with women.
Plus a lot of guys start watching porn from a young age and they´ve oftentimes started before girls naturally become interesting in reaction to puberty.
Therefore guys kind of fight a lust battle from a young age being enhanced by the problem that especially younger guys feel like having sex is part of becoming an adult and of manhood in general. Because society doesn´t teach guys to beware of the dangers of porn and because guys rather feel encouraged by their role-models to care for themselves I think many guys have an issue to figure out what men should be doing.

[nice-girl]

For every one who is like you describe there is another one who is the opposite of that.
But anyways, always check for the actions, not the words. And have standards and don't be afraid to be alone.

[Asker]

True, one guy lied to me about everything including his age, lifestyle and he only brought up the question "do you drink?" Then even before I replied he said he hates it... then found out he's a drunkard.

[Asker]

Like what kick do they get to lie and make stories? I even told him goodbye, we never dated, we were just online friends for 7 days and he's acting as if his life has ended after I left.

[Freyke]

I have been observing that same horrible behavior from the other side actually for longer. Pig men... pig women. There are plenty of them, and that raises my guard. I am currently seeing an angel, who reminds me that the good exists too. It is still fresh, and maybe it won't work out, but so far I consider myself lucky.

[exitseven]

I think it works both ways. I think I was usually pretty serious about relationships and would not deceive somebody just to get sex. I have met girls who did not share my sincerity.

[Asker]

Life and destiny is fucked up.

[Creampiekarl420]

Its just karma the guy those women chose to be with treats them like sht how many good guys did she use and toy with before him you get what you put out women have several opportunities to be with a good man and throw them away for what a handsome face and good sex? You deserve what you get

[Asker]

Who said that only handsome guys are like that? I'm talking about average looking ordinary males.

[Creampiekarl420]

And what assholes just fall out of the sky? Plenty of nice guys get abused by these terrible women then become the fuckboys you women love btching about

[FilmGuy93]

Hurt people hurt people! If you're getting crapped on by a guy, there's some personal baggage he has to work through from childhood or whatever other bullshit.

[serious]

Why?

Very tough to answer. Part of the reason could be their upbringing, other reasons can be the type of company they had in their teenage years etc.

[sirderpsalot123]

Because we are shit and should all be castrated. All 7.753 billion of us are exactly the same and share one brain.

You got the response you were hoping for. I'll be waiting for MHO

[Staximus]

You're probably just picking all the wrong ones. It's time to evaluate and change the way you pick guys

[IJhonnyI]

Clearly your speaking on impulse cause like not even close to all men are like that so please get yourself in check

[jasco]

Their are millions of men across the planet. You can't judge them all and say their all bad. Just a small portion of them. 2nd Both sides have flaws/thorns, good people do exist. It's just harder to find them

[007kingifrit]

sounds like you date 20 year olds, they're not mature so that's why. increase your min age requirement for dating and you'll be fine

[RandomGuy1030]

Look at how many guys have dogs. The point is is guys are very caring and loyal to those who either deeply respect them or have something to offer them. If you can't keep a guy its because you're a bitch.

[Asker]

No, the dog keepers are the biggest narcissists I've ever came across. They keep a dog, abuse that dog and feel proud that the dog still follows them and obeys then unconditionally. Also it's NOT ONE sided, men should be also able to keep women. If you can't keep a woman or stay loyal it's because you're a useless trash.

[Anonymous]

Because you dont value honesty; you would rather select lies you want to hear than truth that you would rather not.

[Asker]

I just cut off a guy who I was extremely attracted to just after I found out he lied to me to win me over. I'm still heartbroken and miss him but I've made it clear to him there's no coming back, I've deleted him from everywhere. Please don't say that because lies are my worst enemies and I will cut them off in a heartbeat as soon as I find out.

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't say you werent discarding men after you found out that they were dishonest.

I said that you are not placing value on honesty when selecting.

Women all say they value and want honesty but they never select for it.

[Asker]

At first I thought he was honest, then I decided to investigate and found out the truth. Have to give them some time to determine whether they are lying or not.

[LazerBean]

Because most women are gullible and thoughtless enough to let them get away with it.

[bamesjond0069]

Im a good guy if the girl is a good girl. Good girls are not sluts. Otherwise im an icy heart player.

[Shamalien]

Cause you’re only referring to 10% of men who are really good looking and have a ton of options

[Asker]

No, I'm talking about average looking men

[Shamalien]

Send me a pic of what you consider to be an average looking man

[jahaims]

You mean most men you interact with. Which says more about you than men as a whole.