A guy I like at work is friends with a coworker I hate who I’ve told to leave me alone. What if he is afraid to talk to me now?

[Anonymous]

There’s a guy at work who is constantly pestering me and texting me about work related items and being a fucking control freak (he’s not my boss), meanwhile I told him to give me space because I feel uncomfortable. Now I’m worried he’s going to talk about what I told him to the guy I like at work and now he’s going to be worried about me reporting him too. The guy I like is awesome and I enjoy talking to him outside of work.
I’m not the kind of person who thinks everything is harassment. However the one guy I work with oversteps so much.

[Whatever2929292]

He is annoying and if you talk to him then I am sure he will talk to you. I think it will be fine if he seems scared or something you could ask him and if you tell him what was about that you can laugh a little and just explain what happened.

But I assume if he is talking to you then

[Asker]

@whatever2929292 he doesn’t text me super frequently, last week he did but nothing since. I don't know he might not be interested.

[Whatever2929292]

Well I am guessing you don't text super frequently either then. I don't know you might just have to take a chance. You might get rejected but you also might not.

Put it this way. If you wait too long... What many times happens is even if he is currently interested. Figure eventually he will find someone else if someone else does not find him. That will suck seeing him with someone else and just knowing it could have been you. Seeing how happy she makes him. As well as seeing how happy he makes her.

Yea... But that is just my advice you can take it or leave it

[Whatever2929292]

Better to take a chance then realize you had your chance and never took it

[Asker]

Well thing is he doesn’t live in my city and mentioned meeting up the next time he’s in town either this month or next. We haven’t met in person. We’re virtual.

[Whatever2929292]

Well I still think this is your choice. If you want to make a move or not. Like I said your choice now is your chance.

Who knows how things will work out but if you really like him

[888theGreat]

There are other guys , keep looking