I did, which is fine because I didn’t automatically want a relationship asap. I did ask him about it and he told me how he felt so I trusted him with his answer and went to the concert to see if we would hit things off
I ended up going because we talked it over but then he decided to treat me like this after we had a talk. I’m in shock honestly. But I at least met great people that night
@BarryLiverstone I haven’t talked to him since , haven’t viewed any of his social media stuff. The only way I’ll ever consider is if he actually apologizes and actually takes me on a date otherwise I’m all set. He took me to the concert to be disrespectful to me
Surprised you haven’t blocked him yet. You are attractive, surely there are others to spend your time with. Even if he did apologize he’s never more than a friend
@BarryLiverstone he won’t receive any of my attention anymore. I just want him to reap what he sows, if he apologizes and actually takes me out I’ll reconsider otherwise even if he only apologizes I won’t even bother. I spent the entire night with another guy and that guy called the guy I was originally with an ass hole straight to his face
I find that men have a harder time being honest with their intentions because they feel as if they will get what they want if they lie. Not only did he not get to sleep with me, but he also got me to leave him alone forever. 🤷🏻♀️
Plus it’s like he didn’t know anyone there yet has gone to multiple events with the same people because most people there knew each other. That’s weird as hell
Definitely is, and won’t even apologize for how he treated me. I gave him a few tries to apologize but the only time he apologized was when another guy yelled at him for treating me like that
Ever heard of I already told him my intentions and he could’ve backed off when I told him what I am looking for and giving me the wrong signals by being a friend? No one said we had to be kissy kissy during the concert , I don’t like pda in front of other peoples friends anyways
No I assumed we would take things slowly as he said he wanted to do but at least treat me like I mean something (a friend) to him while he invited me to a concert he invited me to go to. I felt like a stranger to him
He already took things further than friendship. When he would hang out with me, he would make out with me, have his arm around me etc. I don’t do that stuff with friends. We also communicated about this whole entire thing because I was confused for a little. Regardless friends do not ignore each other during a concert like they don’t know each other
@cloud9vortex1234 I was down to take it slow, but when you aren’t even acknowledging me at a concert, that’s an issue. I didn’t expect him to be kissy kissy with me, but this was my first festival and he has experience with them. He literally could’ve made the whole experience different by just talking me through everything. He made the experience a disaster
He's taking it slowly. He might be testing you to see how you will respond at the first sign of inconvenience. If you decide to back out now then you're not in it for the long haul. Another possible explanation is he decided he didn't like you and this was his way of showing it.
I’m all set with the testing shit. Grown mature adults don’t act that way. They have clarity of what they want and they aren’t afraid to address a situation. He told me the other day he doesn’t sugar coat shit but clearly he’s a liar.
Who said I never lied about anything? I’ve never disrespected someone that I’ve invited somewhere. What is relationship material to you? Someone that puts up with the bs and doesn’t know their worth as a person? Been there, done that. Only disgusting men feast off of women that give them multiple chances for something they known they shouldn’t have done.
And that same night I gave him multiple chances to correct himself , apologize and move on from the situation. He was a brick wall that night. Fuck that, I’m worth more than that
You haven't shown your worth to this guy. A woman who leaves at the drop of a hat like you would divorce a man and take half his stuff. That's what I mean by Relationship Material. Guys need to test people like you to weed them out.
He hasn’t shown his worth to me lmao hasn’t taken me out on dates, the one outing we went on he ignored me. I’m all set. I have other guys that are asking to take me out on dates and such. Don’t need a man that picks and chooses when he wants to involve himself in me. Yes I’ll gladly divorce a man I married if he ever treats me like an option
You consider that misery? You're soft and have no experience with inconvenience. Your Self Love doesn't mean shit to a guy who knows he has a lot to lose.
Lmao dude you are probably single acting like you know the world. He ignored me at a concert that had a ton of people on drugs, drugs all around, random people etc , didn’t let me know he was leaving an area when moving somewhere else etc. If a guy doesn’t care about my safety from the start, it’s not about testing me it’s about not caring about me. You sound like an entitled loser that thinks you are the prize. At 40 years old, have fun getting women with that mindset. You aren’t a spring chicken and it only gets worse as you age.
Lmao, you Damn Bitch. I'm not entitled to anything. Nobody is the prize. I'm happy being single and if it means filtering women like you out THEN SO BE IT!
LMAO your issue is your think you’re worth more than me. I’m 24, attractive , have a good head on my shoulders etc. any man that is 40 and single, there’s an issue with him. You are happy being single because you conditioned yourself to be that way because you have no choice. The audacity of you to think you are better than me 😂😂😂😂
Well I figured that out, but why did he even invite me to the concert? Like there was no reason for the interactions between me and him because I didn’t even give myself up for him lol
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Why did you invest your time in someone who considered you an option from the get-go?
Because realistically in the beginning of talking stages, you are considered an option however one thing I won’t allow is someone to disrespect me
you stated you got mixed signals.
I did, which is fine because I didn’t automatically want a relationship asap. I did ask him about it and he told me how he felt so I trusted him with his answer and went to the concert to see if we would hit things off
well you got your answer.
Didn’t expect to be straight up disrespected
Yep thank god I did. New date for me today 😊
He invited you to a concert and then ignored you? Sounds like he has poor social skills.
He was talking to his friends though. When he was going somewhere else he wouldn’t even tell me he’s leaving. 🤦🏻♀️
I'm sorry, Kylee. That's really messed up. What he did was rude.
All good lol I learned that day who fucks with me and who doesn’t
@kylee2437 👍✊
All throughout he wasn't showing much respect, it seems.
Don’t know what I did to deserve this.
He wasn't ready for/deserving you.
Definitely doesn’t deserve me
Literally every woman worldwide in the whole world. Now you know how it is to be a man.
Uhhh no I don’t disrespect people I’m hanging out with. Can’t relate
Yeah, sounds like he's clueless when it comes to girls. But look at this way, you won't spend any more time on his lame ass.
I thought you were not going to the concert with him? You knew you were not into him
I ended up going because we talked it over but then he decided to treat me like this after we had a talk. I’m in shock honestly. But I at least met great people that night
Yep you met others. So will you go out with this guy again?
@BarryLiverstone I haven’t talked to him since , haven’t viewed any of his social media stuff. The only way I’ll ever consider is if he actually apologizes and actually takes me on a date otherwise I’m all set. He took me to the concert to be disrespectful to me
Surprised you haven’t blocked him yet. You are attractive, surely there are others to spend your time with. Even if he did apologize he’s never more than a friend
@BarryLiverstone he won’t receive any of my attention anymore. I just want him to reap what he sows, if he apologizes and actually takes me out I’ll reconsider otherwise even if he only apologizes I won’t even bother. I spent the entire night with another guy and that guy called the guy I was originally with an ass hole straight to his face
by the way I’ve been played just like you have. It’s sad and us people with a heart suffer the most. All we can do is try again. People will hurt us
I’m just uninterested in dating at this point lol he literally said he doesn’t play games a couple days before he decided to play games with me
Ya I feel you. It just hurts and you wanna step away from dating. I’ve done that before.
not men just him there are asshole of both sexes born every minute
I find that men have a harder time being honest with their intentions because they feel as if they will get what they want if they lie. Not only did he not get to sleep with me, but he also got me to leave him alone forever. 🤷🏻♀️
good for you for that you can do much better
Why do women like you generalize all men based on the actions of one?
That guy sounds like an immature jerk. Don't waste anymore time on him.
he thought he wanted you, then changed his mind
he couldn't say it
He thought he could get me to fuck him with no effort. What grown ass woman settles for that? Ew he’s weird
yes weird guy
a real asshole
Plus it’s like he didn’t know anyone there yet has gone to multiple events with the same people because most people there knew each other. That’s weird as hell
yes extremely weird as hell
at least make the effort
At least treat me like a human lol I’ve had plenty of guys that just wanted to hook up still treat me properly in the process
yes at least, maybe would have been next with a hot woman
Thank you lol I should’ve told him I’m hotter than him anyways 😊
yes probably should have told him 😋
On a scale of 1 to 10 how pissed are you at us guys/men
Cut him off, don't waste more time on him. Plenty of single guys everywhere for you better than him.
No clue but just block him and forget about him
Hard to forget about when I did actually like him. Ugh dating sucks
Yeah that really sucks. What made you like him?
Just his vibe, but it was all fake I guess
Probably. He sounds like a real asshole.
Definitely is, and won’t even apologize for how he treated me. I gave him a few tries to apologize but the only time he apologized was when another guy yelled at him for treating me like that
Like I said, I’d totally move on if I were you. The vibe was probably fake anyway.
I’m definitely moving on, I’m just sad. I feel like people with pure hearts get played the most
I totally agree
You're friendzoned.
Not when he was making out with me a day before that. I’m all set lol
Plus he wasn’t even acting like a friend to me at the concert. Friends don’t ignore each other
Ever heard of friends with benefits?
He didn't want to give you wrong signals.
Ever heard of I already told him my intentions and he could’ve backed off when I told him what I am looking for and giving me the wrong signals by being a friend? No one said we had to be kissy kissy during the concert , I don’t like pda in front of other peoples friends anyways
So now you assume him to be your lover without him having said so?
No I assumed we would take things slowly as he said he wanted to do but at least treat me like I mean something (a friend) to him while he invited me to a concert he invited me to go to. I felt like a stranger to him
So I guess at some point he wouldn't be more than a friend to you if he wouldn't take things further soon, right?
He already took things further than friendship. When he would hang out with me, he would make out with me, have his arm around me etc. I don’t do that stuff with friends. We also communicated about this whole entire thing because I was confused for a little. Regardless friends do not ignore each other during a concert like they don’t know each other
That problem isn't exclusive to guys.
He should take it slowly as well. Guys have a lot to lose in choosing the wrong woman.
@cloud9vortex1234 I was down to take it slow, but when you aren’t even acknowledging me at a concert, that’s an issue. I didn’t expect him to be kissy kissy with me, but this was my first festival and he has experience with them. He literally could’ve made the whole experience different by just talking me through everything. He made the experience a disaster
He's taking it slowly. He might be testing you to see how you will respond at the first sign of inconvenience. If you decide to back out now then you're not in it for the long haul. Another possible explanation is he decided he didn't like you and this was his way of showing it.
I’m all set with the testing shit. Grown mature adults don’t act that way. They have clarity of what they want and they aren’t afraid to address a situation. He told me the other day he doesn’t sugar coat shit but clearly he’s a liar.
And you've never lied about anything? You've your backing out at the first sign of problems. You're not Relationship Material.
Who said I never lied about anything? I’ve never disrespected someone that I’ve invited somewhere. What is relationship material to you? Someone that puts up with the bs and doesn’t know their worth as a person? Been there, done that. Only disgusting men feast off of women that give them multiple chances for something they known they shouldn’t have done.
And that same night I gave him multiple chances to correct himself , apologize and move on from the situation. He was a brick wall that night. Fuck that, I’m worth more than that
You haven't shown your worth to this guy. A woman who leaves at the drop of a hat like you would divorce a man and take half his stuff. That's what I mean by Relationship Material. Guys need to test people like you to weed them out.
He hasn’t shown his worth to me lmao hasn’t taken me out on dates, the one outing we went on he ignored me. I’m all set. I have other guys that are asking to take me out on dates and such. Don’t need a man that picks and chooses when he wants to involve himself in me. Yes I’ll gladly divorce a man I married if he ever treats me like an option
Any guy that tests that way will easily be single for life. No one has time for that kind of misery and lack of self love
You consider that misery? You're soft and have no experience with inconvenience. Your Self Love doesn't mean shit to a guy who knows he has a lot to lose.
Lmao dude you are probably single acting like you know the world. He ignored me at a concert that had a ton of people on drugs, drugs all around, random people etc , didn’t let me know he was leaving an area when moving somewhere else etc. If a guy doesn’t care about my safety from the start, it’s not about testing me it’s about not caring about me. You sound like an entitled loser that thinks you are the prize. At 40 years old, have fun getting women with that mindset. You aren’t a spring chicken and it only gets worse as you age.
Lmao, you Damn Bitch. I'm not entitled to anything. Nobody is the prize. I'm happy being single and if it means filtering women like you out THEN SO BE IT!
LMAO your issue is your think you’re worth more than me. I’m 24, attractive , have a good head on my shoulders etc. any man that is 40 and single, there’s an issue with him. You are happy being single because you conditioned yourself to be that way because you have no choice. The audacity of you to think you are better than me 😂😂😂😂
That's inaccurate, I wouldn't be with you even if you paid me. I don't date Arrogant Bitches.
Because he's playing u and don't care
Well I figured that out, but why did he even invite me to the concert? Like there was no reason for the interactions between me and him because I didn’t even give myself up for him lol
Because he thought that u were easy found out wrong so he was in self pity
100% seems like the case because he knows my past but I’m not like how I was in the past at all
Bingo and now he wants to be an ass
🤷🏻♀️ well he definitely won’t get that since he decided to take me on the worst outing I’ve ever been on