How did you meet your significant other?

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Tell me all your romantic 💝 secrets!!!

I don't have a SO but I still have a cute story. I met one guy who used to go to the same music school i was attending and I fell for him straight away... He liked me too I guess because he treated me well and always teased me too☺️... After some years I found him on IG and texted him he felt the same way for me then but he never knew I was into him then because I never said...

JohnK123 · Accepted Answer

Don’t have one yet either met some great people here tho and in my class. 🤣

Wise4myage · Accepted Answer

She's still out their hiding in the bushes, hehe.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

I'd recently came out of a really messy fucked up relationship with a co worker of mine and I was so bitter about it. I thought I'd never full in love again and I wasn't meant to be happy until I made a amazing friend who changed my life for the better.

He was sick of me always moaning about my ex and how shitty he treated me. He showed me I my self worth a lot then I believed and that I shouldn't be so broken hearted over a man child who didn't deserve me or my tears. For the first time this friend made me feel happy with myself again and tried to help me move on.

He set me up on tinder without telling which at first I was super angry about with him but then he showed me how many matches I was getting. I thought I was ugly and no man would want me so it came as a shock and I was very flattered by how many guys were begging to date me.

My first date was terrible but then I started talking to another guy for a couple months and we eventually met up in the town. We were both at opposite sides of the clock tower and couldn't find each other lol. Then once we did we went off to a bar and now 3 years today we've just put a offer in for are first house together all because of my amazing friend

Freyke · Answer

I was late for work and had to catch a later train. I was already a bit annoyed with myself for being late and once I arrived. The train didn't move. I was supposed to get the train next to this one instead.
I go on the right train and then it turns out the first one was the correct train after all. Announcers and signs just misguided me. Menand many other passengers stepped out of that wrong train, I was like 'what in the hell' and there she was. A tall beautiful blonde... Equally Pissed off.
She was stressing out because the next train wouldn't be in another hour. I suggested going to a local bar and eat something while waiting, and talking about where we were going and how much trains suck was what you could say our first date.
Turns out that besides hating trains we had a lot more in common, and would go on an actual date together the weekend that followed.

weysally · Answer

where I met my now husband is a funny story, I was in a town and the next week I was going to a wedding, it was a distant friend that was getting married, anyway I went for a coffee, and I had to share a table with a guy, we talked and it happened that he was also invited to the same wedding as me, so we decide to meet then and escort each other,
we hit it off well, made a date the next evening, from there we clicked and now 30 years and two daughters later we are still happy, which may sound strange to some, but we indulge in an open marriage have now for over 15 years,

Kaneki05 · Answer

One I met trying to stay with in her hospital because her ex didn't want to go with her after she drank bleach meaning to die so I stayed with her turns out it was alright no problems but we were in all night. Then she came back to mine we fell asleep for half the day as we cuddled.
Then It didn't work out because turns out she preferred her ex the one who didn't care about her dying. So that's how that works. Not really a uplifting story.

The rest have been mostly LDRs online so I met them by socialising online in places.

mobiusforniner · Answer

First girlfriend, in the school library. We were both bored as hell, i wrote down "whats your name" on a piece of paper, folded into a paper plane and threw it to her. That relationship lasted four years and hurt bad when it was over.

Dated many girls after that. Some were from networking with friends at social parties and get togethers. Others from coworkers hooking me up with girls they know. I dated the daughter of a weld school instructor for a little while but she left the state and we grew apart.

Met my now wife at a church potluck. wasn't really religious- I still ain't. A friend got me to go and i saw this cute redhead and rest was history.

Slartybartfast · Answer

My teacher asked me to tutor some other students having trouble in calculus class. My ex was one. I became friends with her and her boyfriend at the time. After highschool a bunch of us rented a house together near the University. I got a really nice job as a wan engineer but it was third shift as she also worked nights we started hanging out. Her and her boyfriend had parted years before. I told her I was going to ask this girl I knew out and the next day she sent flowers to my desk at work.

A few years later we were married.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

I don't have one... I just turned down a few girls who confessed their crush on my last day in college... I'm gonna really love that when I spend the summer alone lmao.. Last time tho we met in a study group... she saw me.. I saw her.. And it was on lol

__MisterGoneShiner__ · Answer

I thought it was my significant one but, the fate told me otherwise... She and I made up to break up with eachother because her mom did not approve our relationship.
When i asked why, she said...
("censored" a little to get away from warnings and from getting my account freezing for" swearing... And this is the exact text from her mom)

"Cuz you are not a cool, rich nihhga who can treat my girl right, biaetch. You have no job, no sheeeit and jusr broke AF! So you better break up with her or i will call the god dang police to arrest you for discrimination)

I was heart broken asf... 😓😓😓

exitseven · Answer

I was going to move to Colorado with a friend. I had my wisdom teeth out and while I was recovering the kid left without me. Instead I went to where my family has a summer house. I met my wife as she walked by my house on the way to the beach. She would not tell me her name but told me where she graduated from college. I went to the college and got the yearbook and looked her up. Then I found her phone number and out of the blue I called her.

JustinTheGreat · Answer

We met in middle school when we were like 11/12. We were best friends for a while before either one of us even knew we liked guys 😅
I remember I always admired him and looked up to him as a kid, and then one day I realized that it wasn’t just platonic admiration, It was FEELINGS that whole time. I was like “…. oh 😳”

I never told him at first because I assumed he was straight and I was afraid of losing our friendship. I was also still a kid trying to figure out my sexuality so I didn’t really know how to process my feelings at all.

He didn’t come out until we were 14/15, and we started dating. But we were kinda off and on through the first couple years of high school before breaking up for good and not talking to each other for years 😳

We ran into each other after graduating when we were 18/19 and we started talking again. Now we’re married lol

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Often I have done real world social networking, so if I have a boyfriend and things didn't work out, we stay friends and since we are on good terms he may have a friend or knows someone to introduce me to.

Yup that is how I met my husband, the friend of a ex boyfriend. Just stay on good terms and good friends and they know your personality and their friends and will have an idea if you'll work out or not.

BCRanger10 · Answer

We were out to breakfast with some mutual friends. My Chicago Cubs had just won the World Series and her goofy St. Louis Car... car... Carpools... Birthday Cards... Waterboys... whatever they're called (don't care, they lost) didn't even make it in.

Anyway, someone at the table was wearing one of their ball caps or t-shirts or something and I was on a gleefully condescending monologue about them when she walked in.

EmmaMary · Answer

We met almost ten years ago when this amazing man who was into his final years of qualifying as an architect, came to my place of works to measure up and make drawings for a huge extension project.

The rest as they say "Is History"!

jamesgoldman · Answer

The nearest to that would be my first ex-girlfriend

It was on the school bus where we'd have conversations but one day I was bullied and let slip my feelings and well the bully decided to make this public announcement which fell flat when she grabbed and kissed me (in someway I suppose I should thank that bully)

She left the school a few months later so I'd visit her at work and take her chocolates on my way to the restaurant I worked in

She had to move to Poland because her grandmother is/was ill and we split amicably before she left where I gave her a white gold necklace I'd bought her (still wish I'd been a mad enough bastard to buy an engagement ring and pop the question)

At some point I'll have enough money and time together to go and visit her

bean2k21 · Answer

She was walking down the street and I flexed for her. Unfortunately, she's now an insignificant other.

20yearsolder · Answer

She asked for a ride on my motorcycle, been together for about 35 years

dreamstar72 · Answer

Saw her walking on the opposite side of the street. (small town) Asked a friend if he knew who she was. He said yes We been in love ever since

Prettygurl12 · Answer

My husband and I met while on Christmas vacation in Costa Rica. I was 14 at the time and he was 12 😅

It turned out we were from the same hometown back in the US. We kept in contact (obviously), stated dating when we were 18/16, got engaged at 20/22, and married at 22/24.

Just celebrated our 4 year anniversary a couple weeks ago.

erandal · Answer

At a university party. I was invited to attend with a work colleague, we got talking, had a lovely time and then kept in touch afterwards.

A few years later they were visiting their girlfriend, and I met up with them (not the girlfriend) for a coffee, one thing lead to another and a few days later they got kicked out of their girlfriends house and they came to stay with me until they went back home.

humanearth · Answer

At a Frederick's of Hollywood lingerie store

I was shopping there and she walks up to me and ask me. So are you shopping for.

I Said I'm shopping for myself. And that got the ball rolling, we had lunch together that day

We are still together today, that was 31 years ago

Bob92220 · Answer

She was born and raised in China and was in the USA on a student Visa. We met at college and we "clicked." I truly thought she was my SO. When I asked her about "us" she said she needs to marry a wealthy Chinese man (I'm not Chinese) in case she needs to go back to China. She did find one and married him.

eagle1951 · Answer

she was a nurse i was a medic i was taking her in patients. and this nurse that had been after me for months to take her out, but i didn't like her. so on the way out the nurse i didn't like handed me her number on the back was my late wife's number. 2 days later i called my late wife we were married 37 years.

Whatever2929292 · Answer

Well lol I can't go anon so you aren't getting any secrets but I will say that school and some other places can't really get into it.  Awe that's sweet!

sheikalana · Answer

We actually matched on tinder and now we're happily married.

msc545 · Answer

I accidentally walked into her and knocked her down in an airport in London. We wound up having dinner and sex.

ButterflyRun6354 · Answer

At the gym. I'd check him out all the time while he was working out. Maybe it's vain, but his bulging muscles won me over right away. Haha

athlete_7 · Answer

Still searching i feel loyality is a big demand 🙃 that this gen women can't fulfill.

scott04sa22 · Answer

Single for life. I can’t have any romantic relationships because it always drains me down.

ariadneR · Answer

He slid into my dms. Lol He said I gave him a hard time for 7 months which is a total lie it was only 2 max.  But he's amazing

RavVid · Answer

last SO was at a bar during Karaoke night she sang and was very vibrant on stage. So I went up and said I liked how she sang. went from their.

AviatorTom · Answer

I met my ex-wife (we're divorced after 20+ years of marriage) at work. My current SO and I met on an online dating site.

TwiNshichamp1 · Answer

Mhhhh sounds like a dream to me, never met so called "Significant Other" rather than be rejected lmao was in 2016. Then I hated Love, Dating and staff. So never felt someone again lol

htmndg183 · Answer

Recently things ended with my childhood crush. She wanted to know if i'd be interested in seeing if we both are marriage material. It meant the world to me and i was happy. But it just didn't work out. Thought she was the SO. But wasn't meant to be.

pamela1 · Answer

I met my so on vacation at a beach resort. Well, let's just say that we had such a great time together during the 3 days I was there along with his friends. I reconnected with him on social media years later and it's been great ❤️

jennifer_bloom · Answer

The last guy I liked I met at work, I began to like him very quickly

Pudsmucker · Answer

I met her when I was teaching at Purdue University. I was at the library and was approached by a beautiful looking carrot blonde woman. We've been together four decades.

soe11 · Answer

On vacation, she was having vacation with her mom. Both mom and daughter really liberal and ultra stx.

IsoUser · Answer

First off you should spell properly. In staid of saying " How did you met your significant other " If you're American you would simply say. " HOW DID YOU MEET YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHTHER "

BLP11520 · Answer

College, we were attracted to each other fast. She was grinding her crotch into my penis fairly quickly and pulled out my penis for a BJ. We married quickly and screwed a lot for 18 solid months

Twalli · Answer

We were part of a social group, actually still are. They had this social class about strengthening connections and about a year later I asked her out.

Part2603 · Answer

What a rollercoaster! So the music school guy broke up with you in the two hours since your post?

McKellar · Answer

Either I haven't met her yet, or there may not be one at all.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

Nothing romantic really, we met in summer school going into sophomore year

Bubbles16 · Answer

I met my current boyfriend in our first year of middle school and before he told me he liked me we were best friends from 6th grade to 12th grade and we start college in August

innerman · Answer

weird question :- normal question “ how WILL you meet your so?

AFretiredTXn · Answer

On a blind date with her sister and brother-in-law.

WizzardGirl · Answer

Extremely annoying dickhead from work wouldn't leave me alone for 2 years... now Im dating him

Jupiter1 · Answer

I met her in a mutual friend's birthday party. Although, I had a date in that party.

wittymilf · Answer

Hmm I stole him from my sister :)

Nikki1989 · Answer

He approached me in a Walmart. lol

DavidRaul · Answer

Still looking for my significant other

Dnice1 · Answer

I met him right on here

vj0090 · Answer

Romantic secrets... I got none😂 single by birth

Blueeyes81 · Answer

I was #275 in a gangbang. Love at first sight.

Zolly99999 · Answer

I don't have one at the moment

IveGotNoName · Answer

We met back in high school.

Smf1989 · Answer

Haven't find the right one yet

KatherineJ · Answer

We were set up by mutual friends.

whiskeyontherocks · Answer

She was my tutor in college

Ruenella_ · Answer

They don't exist at the moment.

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