HHow does a man feel if a woman says she's scared of him?

[Ot4ibt9]

So i have a coworkwe hea loud and very sexual (not to me really... im new plus im hoping he doesn't start treating me like a sex doll lile he and a lot pf uys do to girls at jobs.. it happened to me b4). So anyway he stares in my eyes for np reason at times but thats not what scares me. Its when he lowers his chin and 'jokingly' stares in my eyes to playfully be playfully controlling or crazy. he's a jokester but damn those crazy eyes he does I don't know why but it actually scares me. So i keep telling him he's scaring me.

[ohsheeT]

If you allow this to keep happening this way he's going to keep doing it what you need to do is when there's people around you need to get a little bit firmer a lot more bolder and say listen here mother f***** back off and I mean back off now I don't like what you do I don't like what you represent and you need to stop right this moment never do it again because I'm fed up people might be scared of you but I'm not I will go to the head office and I will tell them exactly what you're doing and there's 15 other people here that will back my play so either grow the f*** up or move on

You need to show him your not scared
He's like a bully he's a manipulator and once he thinks he has you he will keep doing it you can't allow him to think that he has you you can't allow him to think that you're scared you need to fix this right now you have to be bold and if you lose your job guess what it's all good because somewhere down the line it's noted and you will be helping a bunch of other people because I can just imagine how many other women feel the same way that you do and somebody needs to stand up do you have a boyfriend a big brother do you have a boss that's over him you need to talk to one of them and get this crap straightened out right now this is no place for you to have to go each and every day to put up with somebody's bullshit

When I go to work that's my freedom that's my happy space and that would be damned if anybody's going to take it away from me especially a guy like him you need to do something about it

[Chaos83949]

I have nobody.. The male bosses are just as perverted and assholish.

[Ευδεμονια]

I’d feel extremely embarrassed. I’m not the type who wants to be controlling or so creepy like your colleague.
Probably he’s very confident and you shouldn’t show him you’re scared or submissive with him, if you do so you’ll be doing his game. Simply you should ignore him or stare him back, maybe with a pissed look.

[CarolinaJones]

I guess he assumes somethings wrong with him and will feel dejected. He will probably stop looking into your eyes or will probably ask why you're scared. What I can tell is that he's flirting with you, when he gazes into your eyes.

[Ot4ibt9]

I can see the regular ataring but the jokingly crazy mad eyes is what scares me and I don't know why cuz tehcnically he's Joking

[EarthRealm]

It would make me feel powerful if a girl said that to me it would be a compliment.

[Ot4ibt9]

I thought guys would get turned on and keep scaring me cause they like feeling like im scared. But you're like the only guy who said he likes it here lol

[curiousbabyboo]

Probably the worst thing for me to hear. I'd just walk away and never even look in her direction again.

[Chaos83949]

Umm why

[Anonymous]

If I accidentally did something to make her feel uncomfortable/unsafe, I'd feel awful about it.

[Anonymous]

for me i would feel awful about myself

[Ot4ibt9]

Wait really

[Opinion Owner]

yeah

[Ot4ibt9]

he's loud af and makes fun of a girl at work calling her short and fat i doubt he would be affected

[Opinion Owner]

karma will catch up with him

[Ot4ibt9]

The bosses are really shitty for doing fuckall

[Opinion Owner]

then find a new job because going to hr won't do any good unless you go directly to the ceo and complain

[Ot4ibt9]

Yup i agree... people online always tell me to go to HR but i just dont trust that that will do anything. I don't know why people love saying to go to HR all the time. Also my last job i was actally being bullied and sexually harassed by a lot of men there. So im thinking most jobs are gona be like this. So if i leave this job there's almost no point.