My boyfriend is a very loving and patient guy, but sometimes when he's driving he gets angry when people make dangerous mistakes and yells, like "he's such an a***hole" etc. He never honks, or chases or becomes super furious. He's just nagging and expressing his anger. Is this considered to be toxic?
it's pathetic
a few weeks ago i had some punk ass 20 year old with his friend cut every driver on the highway off almost getting into accidents the pos tried that with me but couldn't because i kept blocking him and he kept getting pissed then he tries going to the next lane and starts talking shit and tries cutting me off but again i blocked him from doing that it got to the point i thought about sideswiping him off the road in fact i was millimeters from going in his lane and at over 70mph i very well easily could had if i wanted to but since it wasn't my car i decided not to then the pos had his friend give him some stupid bottle to throw at my car and when he threw it he tried driving away so i started chasing after him but he took the exit ramp way to fast had to be doing at least 100mph at that point i just drove away because i didn't want to be around when he got into a major accident killing himself or someone else or getting pulled over for speeding and wreckless driving. about less then 10 minutes later i saw the ambulence on the highway heading the opposite direction i was driving and i said uh he just got into an accident from the way he was driving wrecklessly
there were several other times i dealt with punk ass 20 and 30 year olds who drove like animals and tried to cause multiple accidents purposely and as soon as they couldn't do it with me they would get pissed off and try to fight me so i pull my knife out and once in a great while there's always that one dumb motherfucker who's to stupid to know the danger he's in and at that point i have to make the conscience decision to walk away and not kill the dumb motherfucker because he ain't worth going to jail for.
In general I have found that when people in a relationship ask if their partners or their own behavior is toxic in a relationship, they already know the answer and it's likely yes. Also to me anger issues no matter where they mainmast are a huge red flag. Because it does not matter if it's only when they are driving, at work or working on a project at home. Simply due to the fact that an anger issue shows poor emotional control and you never really know where or when you will become a target for it.
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Its a form of coping for himself during driving. Driving can be extremely nerve racking for some people and when they see others driving recklessly it causes their brain to over react. I can't really describe it but I have a drivers license and I too would get pissed if someone in front of me did some dangerous moves that could endanger me and my possible passengers. Best thing you could do if they are open to a talk is explaine to them what they did and that they shouldn't do it again.
u I would no sounds like a basic bout of road rage that dont get too crazy
That’s not road rage, that’s just general commentary
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