Curious minds wander?

[toxicpeach420]

SO! I met a guy about a year ago... became friends on Facebook and usually talk through that because we kind of led different situations. He always always just like any man talked crap to me about how he "wants it cause nobody gets it" and "your so beautiful" etc... he would constantly talk himself up about how he can rock my world and blah blah... well we did hook up and it was amazing but he completely ghosted me after 7 times... fast forward 3 months and he messages me again. I obviously cussed him out and hung up on him multiple times.. No matter how rude I was he still called for weeks... he wanted to come pick me up talking shit about how I missed him... really full of himself. Which I don't mind I love the cockiness. (And the cock!) So I gave in and let him come pick me up and again it was amazing but I was on my period but he didn't seem to mind at all it didn't faze him one bit.. my thing is I'm not with the whole love thing, or even the casual hooking up bullshit... I'm wondering if by chance he's getting to attached. Or what is y'all's outtake on this I'm really confused I don't need him getting all mushy gushy... should I cut his ass off now? Or catch a few more Good Times?

[Avicenna]

No, he's not getting emotionally attached to you. He's doing this same thing with other women. Unless you're happy with the status quo, it's time to tell him to get lost.

[toxicpeach420]

It's not that I really mind as long as he doesn't catch feelings... I'm sure I'll get my feel eventually... I'm not looking for a relationship either. I'm not really sure he'll have much time to be with other people other than the couple months we didn't talk... he works like 10 to 12 hours a day and like 5 to 6 days a week so I just don't want shit to get deep... with either of us honestly

[Wise4myage]

I say go for all the fun you can, and then dump his ass.

[toxicpeach420]

That's exactly my thoughts!

[Wise4myage]

Sweet.

[toxicpeach420]

Only because I don't mean s*** to get mushy because who's to say I won't catch feelings? I'm pretty sure I won't but he does some very sweet things and I don't want him to grow on me really so I don't know I'm just wondering if I should just stop the whole thing in general before shit gets real and toxic...

[Wise4myage]

You make valid points, because things could get toxic.

[LazerBean]

It's just a game. They see how far they will push you and how long you will take it.

[toxicpeach420]

I'll take it! Long as no feelings are caught!

[Guy13]

His other girls turned him down…

[toxicpeach420]

Repeatedly?

[Guy13]

He likes the craziness. He likes for it to blow up and reconquer some of the time. He will take the easiest way to scoot-scoot if available.
Relationship and how that functions is warped and it will always be high drama and painful. Ask him if he’s watched lot of porn. He sounds like a guy whose brain 🧠 has been rewired and is unable to form intimate connections or enjoy the “mundaneness” of long-term relationship. Sound right to you?

[toxicpeach420]

Yes! It most definitely seems like that... but it's the small things that he does in between the hook ups. I don't really want a relationship and he knows that and he's actually been single for a long time, as have I. But I feel like the Small Things Are increasingly getting sweeter and sweeter... he started tell me questions about my future and talking about his future although they've been separately they've been very often. I don't know I just don't need all that and have got to come to the bottom of it.. lol Because I don't want this to be a thing where I push him away for so long and then become attached and then he pushes me away that tug of war bullshit.. I don't have time for that. So I'm thinking I should just end it now... but like you said the thrill is fun for me too. And sometimes it's nice to feel human touch. I don't do that ever and I never allow anyone to.

[Guy13]

If you can rationalize the good times and recognize he’s doing the same thing to all of then then I suppose you can enjoy one another. I think he likes to study people, gather as much information as possible, and apply is in methodological research. He likes to manipulate and control people in general. That’s his thing…what’s his job?

[toxicpeach420]

Hey actually works at a Fab shop and has been in that his whole life

[Guy13]

Okay, appreciates machines and beauty... like a woman. It sounds like you guys have it figured out420...

[jimmy2]

Be careful he is a scam