Guy didn't wish me?

[Anonymous]

This guy wanted to hook up with me but I never acted slutty nor seduced him. Hence he was never able to do anything sexually with me.

He has kept me in his contacts and follows me on instagram. But we never text or talk. He never texts me. However, he got jealous once when he saw me with another guy and he acts and looks really irritated and bitter with me.

He has a huge ego and hates being ignored.

On our 1st date, I asked him when his birthday was and he told me it was 25th August. Mine is on 25 July so then he winked at me and said "now you will remember".

However, he didn't message me on my birthday. Meanwhile he attended a male friends birthday on 27th July. He was online a lot and even at midnight (he's most likely hooking up with other girls)

I blocked him out of anger but then my friend said not to block him because birthdays arw for friends and he's not my friend and he wouldn't wish considering he wants sexual things from me.

I unblocked him after 1 day but what do you think? Am i being wrong in exoecting a birthday wish or is my friend right?

[IAteTwoFullHams]

It sort of sounds like you're just nothing to each other. He thinks you're attractive and you don't want his hands on you, so you're just... two people who have met each other.

[Asker]

Yes but he's still keeping my number and following me on instagram and we ve been on dates before. We also talk in person.
So at least he shoild have done something?

[IAteTwoFullHams]

Keeping someone's number and leaving your Instagram alone is literally a matter of doing absolutely nothing at all.

[Asker]

He doesn't need to keep me considering how passive aggressive he has been with me

[IAteTwoFullHams]

But he doesn't need to delete you, either. All he's doing is just going about his life without thinking about you much.

[Asker]

Why should he keep me? We are nothing to each other and people who are nothing to each other aren't keeping numbers or instagrams. They just unfollow and delete esp when there's no interest

[IAteTwoFullHams]

Unfollowing and deleting means you're thinking about the person. If you aren't thinking about the person, then what you do is nothing at all.

[Asker]

Lol total rubbish. I just unfollowed a bunch of people when i looked at my instagram because we dont even talk. I wasn't even thinking of them i saw them and decided to remove.
Thats what people do.

[IAteTwoFullHams]

No, that's what you do. Most people don't spend hours pruning their lists on social media. They just pop on once in a while and log out and do actual things with their lives.

[Asker]

Nope. Seems like you have no clue how the world operates

[IAteTwoFullHams]

I think I see the reason this guy isn't interested in any more communication with you.

[Tyrael]

@IAteTwoFullHams is absolutely right. I've got people on Facebook I haven't spoken to in like 10 years. I literally do not care so I don't bother going through and removing them. This is pretty standard for most people.

[Asker]

@Tyrael wrong because facebook and whatsapp are different

[xiaolian]

He never liked u, its only for sex.
It doesn't matter if u block or not, he was waiting for u to like him so he can dump u later. Forget him and move on.

[Asker]

We never had sex

[spartan55]

Yeah, start holding your breath... now!