I have read about nine thousand things on the Internet that say "MEN, DON'T TALK TO ME AT THE GYM, I'M TRYING TO EXERCISE, BACK THE FUCK OFF YOU DISGUSTING PIECE OF SHIT"
Therefore I would not, under any circumstances, approach a woman at the gym.
Then you need to go talk to them. Women who use the gym to work out don't like when guys approach them UNLESS we need help. If we need a spotter or Lord forbid we get injured, we absolutely appreciate men coming to us and assisting. Other than that though, women who actually use the gym for it's intended purpose do not want to be approached. So you approach them. They don't need to approach us.
I’ve seen tons of TikTok and other videos with women getting upset with men gawking at them and approaching them at the gym so a lot of guys are standoffish as a result. You’re probably gonna have to try a more direct approach and smile, say “hi” pick on them a little or light flirting. It’s the crazy world we live in.
Opinion
20Opinion
I would never date anyone from the gym because if it went south I would have to find another place to workout. But I imagine I would tend to be more friendly towards somebody who put in good workouts and did not dress in a skimpy little outfit.
Looks, people are saying there's established things and they are not wrong, but looks don't lie. If I keep catching a girl glancing at me and at somepoint she doesn't look away but smiles, I usually go up to her (if I find her attractive)
Nothing short of her approaching me is going to get me to talk to a woman at the gym. We all have too much personal experience with uptight women telling us we're being creepy. It's easier to just focus on our workout and play it safe.
Literally nothing. I go to the gym to work out. I avoid women and ignore them. I’m not going to be another creep, or be used to feed your ego and give you validation. In fact I want nothing to do with you. That’s why I’m in the corner listening to metal and moving iron.
For years now women have been trying to establish that guys shouldn't approach women at the gym. So I think it should be the woman doing the approaching at the gym, if she's interested in a guy there.
How do you like to be approached?
I've always been a bit nervous with the forward method, Is that what you & the majority of females prefer?
You might be either too hot (thus too intimidating) or too ugly (thus not worth our time) to approach. You should figure out which. You could try striking up the convo yourself.
Ask a guy to spot you with the weights and strike up a conversation
It's 2022, if you want a guy, go talk to him.
Girls are off limits at the gym, the only exceptions are for bad form or asking for a machine/help.
I wouldn't.
People who are serious about going to the gym really don't like it when others use it as a hook-up joint.
If you're truly interested, catch her in the parking lot.
No, I'd approach a girl at many places but a gym isn't one of them.
Jiggle your booty and men will line up for you.
I repeat : jiggle it girl.
Extremely clear signals that she wants me to, otherwise you're not supposed to bother people at the gym.
In the gym you will have to be the friendly one that starts a conversation. Guys aren't going to risk being thrown out of their gym
Say hi. Ask questions. Start conversations. And guys will do they same
Have you tried approaching one of them? There's a good chance they assume you're taken already.
Have you tried staring / smiling? Or do you want it to be effortless?
Just sit back and do nothing.
Stupidity.
You can also add your opinion below!
