Why is an old friends with benefits trying to get me to cheat on my boyfriend with him. Now he’s shading me?

[Anonymous]

He was in my city and we hooked up once months ago, he’s coming back in November and I guess we planned to hang out I lost interest because I told him I liked him and he brushed me off and treated me like a fan. but since I have a boyfriend now it’s not happening again with him and he’s salty he’s making cheating jokes asking me to video call him. I told him no because I’m with my boyfriend and he was like go in the other room trying to talk to me. He rejected a relationship with me.. and now he’s mad I’m in one?
he asked me to like and comment on his insta pics twice and when I didn’t he posted “can’t make a wife outta a hoe”

[FilmGuy93]

Have you considered the possibility that the kind of person who seeks out an friends with benefits situation isn't the kind of person who places a high value on romantic monogamous relationships?

[spartan55]

Why is any of this a surprise to you?

[Asker]

lesson learned nice guys aren’t always nice guys. he’s so selfish if he had a shred of humanity in him he’d respect the fact that I’m in a relationship the first time I told him instead of becoming bitter…

[spartan55]

Okay, so you think that a guy that used you for sex will suddenly have the utmost respect for you. He never had any to begin with. Otherwise you wouldn't have been in an friends with benefits.
You think he gaf about you having a boyfriend? Come on now.