I work in a hospital setting. There is a guy at work, I don’t see him very often because he rotates through my unit as well as different units, and also due to shift work. However, over the past year, whenever we work on the same shift in the same department, I feel like we always make brief but significant/intense eye contact. However, apart from a few work-related interactions, we have not really spoken. He is extroverted around others, but when it’s only me and him around he doesn’t speak to me. If there is another girl in our presence he will tease her and have playful banter with her whilst practically ignoring me. Although it does generally probably seem like there’s nothing there, we always make eye contact, and it feels like there is something between us that’s not been verbalised. I don’t know if I’m over romanticising this situation because I have a crush on him, but can someone give their take on the situation alongside any advice. What signs can I look out for from him? How to approach the situation (bearing in mind we are practically strangers, I don’t even know if he is in a relationship status/age etc)
He is really into you. People need to stop using logic when it comes to attraction. This is so obvious to me. He does not talk to you because he feels too attracted and that energy is being dissipated through the other girls because he is not interested in them. He also wants you to feel jealous, desire him more and become visibly effected in some way proving you desire him. However, this guy is showing many redflags and is either emotionally unavailable or emotionally tortured in some way. This guy wants you, no doubt, but he will not ever do a thing about it. You shouldn't do anything about it either. The saying 'there is a thin line between love and hate' applies here. He does not like how you make him feel...
I wouldn't recommend peeing in the companies own bedpans...
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Sounds like he is trying to make anyone or everyone jealous. We call that "stirring up a hornets nest". This guy is not serious... don't get your heart set on him !!
You said extroverted person but dont speak with u and speak with others.. Maybe his just analyzing how he would communicate with.
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I'm sorry, but I don't think he likes you. You're probably imagining things because you have a crush on him.
Means he's attracted to you. Find a way to start a convo with him.
So, you think there is something between you and this guy because you have 'intense eye contact' once a month. He probably doesn't talk to you because you don't seem intersted. Like at all.
He’s just being a tease.
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