What kind of character is this guy having?

[Metelda]

Hey everyone so I have a friend whom I like. He says he likes me too. He is urging me to change my university and take one in the same city as he will take. I was also considering the same as I want to get in a reationship with him while we are studying in the same city away from home. We had been preparing for our college entrance together and I already got alloted to one. He used to check on me always and never bothered texting first and last good night message was always his even though I greeted he wanted his to be the last and next day came up with good mrng msgs. Always urged for phone calls and replied in seconds. He also gave me nicknames and all. But back from sometime he is reluctant to phone calls though his good mrng mssges are still constant but then too takes longer time to reply unlike before even though I see him online on Instagram. He says he is busy with work but i dont know. Why is he doing so? Is he avoiding me? Also what should I do?

[20yearsolder]

That will be plenty of boys at the University of your choice. If he wants to be with you so bad why doesn't he change his university to the one you're going to? Sounds to me like he's almost embarrassed to date anyone until he moves away

[Metelda]

he didn't apply to the university I am going already.

[20yearsolder]

If I were you, I would go to the college that you chose. I wouldn't change schools. You picked that school for a reason.

[Metelda]

no that's not the case. i picked that school as a backup for the time being. I will move out next month but not sure which city and which college and so he is asking to get onto a university in the same city as his.

[20yearsolder]

But you two aren't even dating yet, It just seems like a big leap of faith hoping that that relationship works out. What if it doesn't then you're stuck in the same city and school with him

[Metelda]

yes right. also i am too tired to play these mind games and lets drop him as an option