My friends with benefits is mad I told him happy birthday an hour after his birthday started [23M] [25F]. Why was he upset?

[WinCx3d]

My friends with benefits birthday is today. His birthday started at midnight. At around 1:25 am he was calling and blowing my phone up. I answered and he said “well thanks for telling me happy birthday”

And i said “the day just started i have all day to tell you happy birthday” and he hung up the phone

TL:DR; why was he upset and worried about a simple happy birthday wish

[finesxed_j]

that is very rude n unkind of him but (not justifying what he did) he probably wanted you to be the first to tell him because he is really into you and was upset that you weren't the first OR he is one of those really picky people that they were born for ex.830 so u need to say happy birthday at that exact time (ridiculous ik but it is what it is)

[WinCx3d]

Lol I don't know

[JDavid25]

Maybe ge is upset at something else besides the birthday thing.. Maybe you responded to him too long or said something he didn't appreciate.. Or maybe he has some things he needs to work out.. An hour after his birthday starts is actually pretty good.. Maybe it also made him feel like you didn't care.. I guess it depends on y'all history..

[Topaz1979]

Reason 1: he likes you a lot and he wanted you to be one of the first person to tell him happy birthday, and he got hurt that things didn't happen how he planned or he thought you forgot his birthday.

Reason 2: he is taking out his frustrations out on you.

[Guardian45]

Go with Reason 1

[Dinklex3]

Probably spoiled by others doing it for him.

I get like 7 phone calls at 12am from others to wish me happy birthday, lol.

He's probably used to that.

[WinCx3d]

Other people did tell him happy birthday lol

[Dinklex3]

Figures, lol.

[Staximus]

You should have just ignored him and went to sleep, and told him happy birthday when you wake up. Ask him "Why are you getting upset? Are we just fuck buddies or are you going to grow a pair of balls and ask me to be your girlfriend?"

[AviatorTom]

He was upset because you downplayed his birthday. All you had to do was say "Happy Birthday at 1:25 am and there would have been no issue. Why didn't you do that?

[Smoothing]

He was horny. Perhaps he wanted you to be next to him when his birthday arrived.

Or maybe he is just being an attention seeker for that day.

[Wubs3000]

What the hell lmao who tf cares that much. I could maybe see doing that in a playfull manner with your s/o like hitting them up and telling them happy birthday

[FilmGuy93]

Sounds like you're fucking a fucking asshole. I encourage you to seek alternative semen distribution solutions

[innerman]

show him that you gat better things to do than defend yourself over simple things.


If you somehow feel affectionate to him, well, you gona have to deal with more stupid things than this

[bowenw]

He may be hoping he makes you feel bad so you'll make it up to him later.

[Paul09]

Seems like a huge man baby. How do these "men" find friends with benefits begin with?

[captain_voidwalker]

Well if he was like me getting woken up at 1 am would piss me off to.

[Ins0mn1a]

Nice opinion

[Hanrej]

Wow! I swear people of today have no problems if they chose to make a problem out of somthing so silly.

[Guardian45]

Sounds like he likes you and was hoping for some Bday nookie!

[spartan55]

Your friends with benefits is a colossal pussy.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Maybe his real age is 3, not 23.

[HaveNoName]

Because his mental age is 7.

[Jamie05rhs]

... Wow. That dude needs a chill pill.

[maximumpower]

He be gots issues an' siiit.
Run away!

[JohnK123]

Overreacting fs (I mean him not u)

[Xtendable]

He’s caught feelings

[WinCx3d]

He caught feelings?

[Jerre]

He is an ass hole!

[H8INCHES]

Are you sure he's a guy? What a pussy..

[sattii2607]

Looks to still be a kid he needs to grow up