This makes me nervous; he asked me twice?

[CalmYourTits]

I don't know if I am looking in to this, but this guy that is in one my business networking groups (my group meets weekly) asked me if I ever wanted to get back into dance. He dances for fun. He does swing and salsa; he's actually very good. He's asked me twice in a week, and when he looks at me he is thinking. It drives me crazy. He is a nice person. I just don't know what he is thinking. He is married and I assume happily.

I am not sure if he is asking me because he wants me to go with him because he loves to dance, and I think his wife doesn't want to), or if he wants to hook me up with someone there.

[NathanDavis]

what is it that you want?

do you want to go dance with him?

or are you thinking of being a part of him cheating on her wife?

chances are the wife will not like either of those two scenarios

so what's your worry? to be caught? or the fact that you don't want to be part of the cheating drama?

[CalmYourTits]

I think you went a little far there. I don't want to be part of any drama that is why I denied both times. If you read everything I said I feel like he wants to hook me up with someone.

[NathanDavis]

I did not go far... I just asked a few questions to cover all the options

so you said you don't want any drama, then don't be nervous about it... instead, be very firm with him and say it very clearly " you are married, and it might not be right that you ask and also insist so much on asking someone else to go out with you while you're married " and explain that this makes you uncomfortable and then he should understand and stop it...

[spartan55]

"wants me to hook up with someone there" huh? Seriously where do you girls come up with this shit? That's a pretty elaborate plan just to get you to attend a dance class. Why would that guy in your business group do that for someone else? That's seriously like middle school go between stuff.
Yet you think this could be happening... oh my...🤦

[CalmYourTits]

We are friends too. People here think "she needs a boyfriend. she should be married. I know a guy for her"

[Staximus]

Tell him "I don't fool around with married guys there, twinkle toes"

[007kingifrit]

it's a hookup thing. 100%. men don't want female friends

[EaterPeter]

Ask him if he want to hook you up.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Calm your tits